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Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


smonster - Feb 25, 2012 10:03:37 am PST #8496 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Listening to Lana del Rey makes me want to rat my hair and wear cateye eyeliner.

Inside pants are good. I'm in denim leggings, and they're comfy enough that I'm going to take a nap in them. And then be productive, I swears.


beekaytee - Feb 25, 2012 10:09:52 am PST #8497 of 30001
Compassionately intolerant

Exactly. I mean, I totally realize that A) they were trying to be kind and 2) my emotional state is extremely fragile right now, but dear god. I do finally feel like I can breathe without having to force air into my lungs, but I still find myself crying several times a day on my own. I don't need any help with that.

ChiKat, I totally get this.

I received dozens of lovely cards when Bartleby died and know how tough it was to read them all. So, for a little bit, I opened them up and put them in a lovely basket. I'd say a quick, 'thank you' out loud and promise to get to them soon.

Then, on a day when I could breathe, I sat down with a box of tissues and read as many as I could in one go.

I was exhausted for a long time, which makes it even harder to take in other people's sentiments. They are so caring and kind, it is best to wait until you can feel that before coming out of your own shell. Or, at least that is what worked for me.

Some of those cards, I will keep forever. For now, they are still in that lovely basket, along with some of his toys and things.


sj - Feb 25, 2012 11:04:38 am PST #8498 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

The seller came back and said they would take care of everything we asked for at our current price!


Zenkitty - Feb 25, 2012 11:06:08 am PST #8499 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

sj: EEEEEEEEE!


meara - Feb 25, 2012 11:17:14 am PST #8500 of 30001

The seller came back and said they would take care of everything we asked for at our current price!

Oooh!! Very exciting and hopeful!


JZ - Feb 25, 2012 11:18:40 am PST #8501 of 30001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

sj: ROCK ON! I am dancing the Snoopy dance for you and TCG!

New sellers: BLESS YOUR HEARTS YOU ARE MADE OF AWESOME

Old sellers: SUCK IT, WEASELBAGS


Calli - Feb 25, 2012 11:24:43 am PST #8502 of 30001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Yay, sj!


Nora Deirdre - Feb 25, 2012 11:31:08 am PST #8503 of 30001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

That is awesome, sj! Really happy for you guys.


Strix - Feb 25, 2012 11:36:45 am PST #8504 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

sj, AWESOME!!!!

GUYS, I painted!! We did -- Dan is doing the edging now, and we will need to add a second coat tomorrow. I will put pix up in a bit, but the pics don't do it justice -- it's a dark hallway.

But I LOOOVE the color! Love it! It's called Peacock Tail by Behr and it's a tealy-morocan blue hybrid, and it's so pretty, and will look great when I get my stuff hung up there. I have wedding gifts I asked for and got 2 years ago stillin the boxes because I was waiting to paint my ugly-ass hallway!!

I've never painted before. I'M MAD WITH PAINT POWER NOW!


smonster - Feb 25, 2012 11:42:44 am PST #8505 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Congratulations, sj! So excited for y'all.

Woo, Erin! PAINTING POWER.

I failed at napping, due to excess coffee at brunch. Now I'm up, have washed dishes and pulled out chili and rice to thaw, and am seated with a big Jack Skellington mug of peppermint tea to get productive. Maybe I'll do my nails as a reward later.

Shir, sorry about the fractious day. Hope tomorrow is better.