If you can get a little sleep , good. If not, you will get some at some time
Jenny ,'Bring On The Night'
Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
My heart hurts. We fought yesterday, badly. I'm afraid I caused this--too much stress on him.
Oh honey no. I'm sorry you fought, but you did not cause this.
NO YOU DID NOT.
Sorry. I don't mean to shout, Maria. I just mean to mean it.
Don't don't don't possess yourself with that thought. These things are beyond our individual control like this, honestly, love. Please.
Oh, honey, no. ita is so very right about that.
I known it is hard, but let that thought go
You had absolutely no hand in this. It's always sudden.
Marriages have arguments. This wasn't your fault.
Sometimes awful things happen. But it's not your fault. I truly don't believe that.
History is a bitch. Woulda, coulda, shoulda. Please tell your people that you love them.
Maria, love, please listen to these wise people. Fights happen. This has nothing to do with that. And I know that a severe trauma like you've had today can cause those horrible after images, so I want to echo everyone else in saying that taking an anti-anxiety/sedative is not a bad idea if you have one available. The most likely side effect is drowsiness, but mostly they just put a bottom on the pain spiral for a little bit. If you don't or you don't want to, of course that's okay too. You aren't alone. We love you.