Sending you the ma~~~ Anne. I always find one day of wallow will allow me to do one thing and one thing more , that gets me out of this. But - I do not suffer from severe depression nor am I you, so pay no attention to me if it doesn't make sense.
Travers: Perhaps you'll favor us with a demonstration while we're here. Buffy: You mean, like, right now? 'Cause, already had my recommended daily dose of fights tonight.
'Potential'
Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
beth b - Dec 28, 2011 6:09:03 am PST #4786 of 30001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
Strix - Dec 28, 2011 6:19:08 am PST #4787 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger
Lots of -ma, Anne. I've been there, and that head-space sucks.
But hey, WE know you are awesome, and you know you can trust us. Go with that, and remember: fake it till you make it.
Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - Dec 28, 2011 6:54:23 am PST #4788 of 30001
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"
Much ~ma, Anne. I hope things improve for you.
Shir, heh - that makes today seem a bit less awful. It'll be lovely to see you tomorrow, at least!
Strix - Dec 28, 2011 6:59:52 am PST #4789 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger
For all Virgos and other declutterer types, Better Homes & Gardens has a pretty doable month-by-month decluttering guide for 2012: [link]
Anne W. - Dec 28, 2011 7:18:32 am PST #4790 of 30001
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.
Thanks, all. I think I'm dealing with a perfect storm of peri menopausal brain chemistry plus some big job changes and a series of recent re-emergence events that have triggered some not so healthy thinking about my own life and what I have(n't) done with it
le nubian - Dec 28, 2011 7:44:19 am PST #4791 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."
Erin,
I am a Virgo, love to declutter when I have fucking time! Thanks for the link. Hopefully I will pay attention to it.
le nubian - Dec 28, 2011 7:45:50 am PST #4792 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."
re: sitting shiva
I read a really funny (like I was laughing out loud the whole time I read it), but really gross, definitely rated "R" book that had this as a feature. This is where I leave you
It is wildly inappropriate and the shiva was seven days.
Strix - Dec 28, 2011 8:23:21 am PST #4793 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger
Le N, I didn't know you were a fella Virgo! WOOT!
Course, I am on the cusp of Leo/Virgo (8/23) so I am a clean, detail-oriented freak with pretty hair and a vivacious charm.
According to Astrology.com, which is a PERFECTLY CROMULENT PSEUDOSCIENCE, RIGHT?
Le sigh. Back to le cleaning. Pre-NYE, but hey, it also means I start the new year off with a clean house, so...
WindSparrow - Dec 28, 2011 8:47:36 am PST #4794 of 30001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
Lots of ~ma for you, Anne. This time of year steals so much of whatever coping mechanisms we have.
{{{Seska&Girl}}}
bonny, you are still in my thoughts.
Aims, I love that picture of you and your sister - and I'm glad your meeting with her went so well.
Nora Deirdre - Dec 28, 2011 8:54:05 am PST #4795 of 30001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
This time of year steals so much of whatever coping mechanisms we have.
God, so true.
A year ago, the daughter of one of my neighbors died in a horrible fire with seven other young people. It's been a hard year for this group of friends, who were close to both mother and daughter. Here's a story about the fire and the community: [link] (My friend's name is Rebecca S. and her daughter's name is Melissa M.)