Sometimes doing similar things in different environments can be an improvement. I work for a non-profit, and IT there seems to have reasonable hours and expectations and good benefits.

I was going to say something similar -- are you anywhere close enough to a decent-sized university to look for work there? Pay is often not great but benefits are excellent; some of the bigger unis maintain their own temp pools, which is a great way to get the uni experience you usually need in order to get a uni job (and at least half the people I know at my uni, including myself, started out as temps who eventually lucked into the right position and got offered a permanent place). And the atmosphere is, for all its frequent awfulness and dysfunction, awful and dysfunctional in a way that's much more tolerable for many people than the corporate world. Or, at least, that's been my experience. And it (or, as Sail points out, anything in the nonprofit/public sector) might also be a better, happier, less toxic atmosphere for Daniel.

Does he have disability benefits? Can he use those while he heals and figures it out?

I was going to suggest IT work for a city/county govt or school district less pay, better hours, and usually better long term benefits

IT may not be where he wishes to stay , however, working in a job that does not take over you life can give you enough room to do some exploring

working in a job that does not take over you life can give you enough room to do some exploring

Yes, exactly. A job that lets you go home at 5 and not check in until 8 the next morning can allow you to volunteer, take classes, and otherwise look for a different career path that suits you better. A fulltime+ job eats a big chunk out of ones day. It would be a shame to spend that much time being miserable.

I was going to suggest IT work for a city/county govt or school district less pay, better hours, and usually better long term benefits

There was a listing for the local county government IT department. He did apply. I do not believe they responded at all, let alone get called in for an interview. I had the feeling that somebody's aunt's cousin's friend had the job in his or her pocket already and they were just posting the ad to make it look like they followed protocol.

What does he want to do?

I don't think he is clear on that. The rec for "What Color Is My Parachute" sounds like a good idea. I'll see if I can find it in the library.

Thanks, everyone.

There are some legitimate work-from-home companies, WS. For example, this company [link] hires people with call center experience to do call center work from home. Even if he doesn't like the work per se, he could be away from the toxic environment and commute while he figures out something else.

Seconding Ginger's suggestion. I had a friend who worked for that company during a time period when she couldn't drive and she said it was a good experience. With the holidays coming up, a number of companies are increasing staff on their customer service lines so the timing might be right and since all of the interviewing and testing is online, Daniel could apply whenever he feels up to it.

WS, I have no good work advice for Daniel but best of luck to him.

If I had known what a pain in the ass it was going to be when I decided to hyphenate my name, I probably wouldn't have done it. I swear most people look at my like I am speaking an alien language when I give them my new name.

I get that too sj. It doesn't help in my case that all my names, including the two last names, are variant spellings.

Most people look at me like I'm speaking an alien language when I give them the name I was born with.

My daily whine: If my ears aren't better by the morning, I'm going back to the doctor, even though I can't imagine what she can do this side of a tiny dynamite charge.