I walk. I talk. I shop, I sneeze. I'm gonna be a fireman when the floods roll back. There's trees in the desert since you moved out. And I don't sleep on a bed of bones.

Buffy ,'Chosen'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

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NoiseDesign - Sep 27, 2011 1:51:48 pm PDT #365 of 30001
Our wings are not tired

What sort of field would Daniel like to be in?


Anne W. - Sep 27, 2011 2:42:23 pm PDT #366 of 30001
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

Andi, my place of work has started opening up more positions where people can work via remote access from wherever. I can take a look to see if there's anything open right now. As ND asked, what field? Something computerish, yes?


Connie Neil - Sep 27, 2011 2:53:16 pm PDT #367 of 30001
brillig

the tissues are still going to have to heal and rebuild, like with a burn.

I still have scarring from my bout of stupidity-aggravated infection. My shins look like I've been severely injured, and I sometimes catch people staring at them in horror. It took a couple of years to get the gumption to say "Fuck it, I'm wearing shorts."

But it is slowly receding. Slowly. I have a private bet with myself on whether I'll be dead before the red areas have faded, but I'll always have the round scars that look like I was in a gunfight with gnomes.


WindSparrow - Sep 27, 2011 4:16:10 pm PDT #368 of 30001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

As ND asked, what field? Something computerish, yes?

He's currently a help desk guy. I think that perhaps one of the things he needs help with, is to brainstorm ideas for getting away from the tech world, while maintaining a decent level of income and benefits.


ChiKat - Sep 27, 2011 4:23:24 pm PDT #369 of 30001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

What does he want to do?


Calli - Sep 27, 2011 4:36:56 pm PDT #370 of 30001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Sometimes doing similar things in different environments can be an improvement. I work for a non-profit, and IT there seems to have reasonable hours and expectations and good benefits. My department's kinda screwy (although I'm getting moved away from the more dysfunctional bits--yay!), but IT seems well run and sane. If Daniel's interested, there are usually some good non-profit job listings here: [link]


Steph L. - Sep 27, 2011 5:09:16 pm PDT #371 of 30001
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

I think that perhaps one of the things he needs help with, is to brainstorm ideas for getting away from the tech world, while maintaining a decent level of income and benefits.

Some people like the book What Color Is Your Parachute? -- it's been years since I looked at it, but IIRC, one of the things it does is help the reader with figuring out things like What Do I Want To Do? and What Field Do I Want To Do It In?, etc.

I think it gets updated pretty regularly, so you may want to check the library -- he could look through it while he's recuperating.


JZ - Sep 27, 2011 5:47:23 pm PDT #372 of 30001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Sometimes doing similar things in different environments can be an improvement. I work for a non-profit, and IT there seems to have reasonable hours and expectations and good benefits.

I was going to say something similar -- are you anywhere close enough to a decent-sized university to look for work there? Pay is often not great but benefits are excellent; some of the bigger unis maintain their own temp pools, which is a great way to get the uni experience you usually need in order to get a uni job (and at least half the people I know at my uni, including myself, started out as temps who eventually lucked into the right position and got offered a permanent place). And the atmosphere is, for all its frequent awfulness and dysfunction, awful and dysfunctional in a way that's much more tolerable for many people than the corporate world. Or, at least, that's been my experience. And it (or, as Sail points out, anything in the nonprofit/public sector) might also be a better, happier, less toxic atmosphere for Daniel.


P.M. Marc - Sep 27, 2011 6:05:24 pm PDT #373 of 30001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Does he have disability benefits? Can he use those while he heals and figures it out?


beth b - Sep 27, 2011 9:19:29 pm PDT #374 of 30001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I was going to suggest IT work for a city/county govt or school district less pay, better hours, and usually better long term benefits

IT may not be where he wishes to stay , however, working in a job that does not take over you life can give you enough room to do some exploring