Noise Design, I'm so sorry. I know that when Tom and I needed to make decisions about his mom, it was really, really hard. Still dealing with the fallout from that, and, after her death, it's still hard.

Uh, I know that's probably not very comforting, but I guess I just wanted you to know that I know a little bit where you're coming from, and I'm sorry. I wish you all the strength in the world to make decisions that are best for your mother and your sister and you.

ND, I haven't said anything because I don't know what to say. I'm so sorry for the stress, and I hope you find a solution soon, with a minimum of drama.

I'm back from Thanksgiving 4: In It to Din It at Nora's house. And it was DELICIOUS. And then we watched Doctor Who (I hadn't seen the finale) so I can say WTF? with the rest of y'all.

ND the same. I don't know what to say, but I am sorry about what you are going through and wish you the best.

I'm sorry, ND. Hoping for a resolution.

Noise Design, may this situation with your mom get resolved soon - a real, workable solution.

What WindSparrow said. Hope the journey to the solution is as quick and painless as possible.

Maddie died she had a convulsation this morning and died I feel like I killed her. I don't know what to do I never had a cat die young.

{{{{{Askye}}}}} I'm so sorry. You're a good cat parent. You took her to the vet and did what you were told to do.

But I should have seen this sooner. I called Will and he's coming up. She meowed for the first time when she had the siezures and it was horrible. I was trying to comfort her and call an emergency vet.

I can't stop blaming myself.

I can't get ahold of my parents and right now I really want to talk to my mom.

((((askye))) I'm so sorry.

Thank you