Liese is right. that's also the reason why I believe in letting one bomb drop at a time. Because of the aforementioned "nastiness", you won't feel great at all the responses to the divorce.

I don't think you want to treble that with baby disclosure just yet. At least *I* wouldn't.

You may be a bolder, braver person than I am.

Here's hoping your FB followers are better than the average bunch.

Here's hoping your FB followers are better than the average bunch.

And you know what? If they aren't? Drop 'em. Times like this is when you find out who is worth including in your lfe, and who isn't.

I like the way you think.

Word to what javachik and le nubian said.

I was exhausted and then started reading, and finished the damn book, and now I've missed my falling-asleep window. Foo. Hope the next one comes soon. It felt good to disappear into a book, though, it was a hectic day with more to come.

Can I just say that Nora and Tom saved my ass, once again? They graciously let me come do an emergency load of laundry at their house on no notice whatsoever, since it was too late to go to my laundromat, and finish my slides there. And even tolerated my exclamations of frustration over formatting, and read over my slides to make sure they didn't totally suck. I think I owe y'all a nice dinner somewhere, Nora.

Have I mentioned that smonster in New Orleans with Nora and Tom warms my heart like homemade hot cocoa? The kind where you heat up the milk, and mix cocoa with sugar, and slowly add the milk... not the instant packets.

Have I mentioned that smonster in New Orleans with Nora and Tom warms my heart like homemade hot cocoa? The kind where you heat up the milk, and mix cocoa with sugar, and slowly add the milk... not the instant packets.

Me too. How are you doing, Windsparrow? How is Daniel feeling?

And you know what? If they aren't? Drop 'em. Times like this is when you find out who is worth including in your lfe, and who isn't.

That's the truth, right there.

Me too. How are you doing, Windsparrow? How is Daniel feeling?

He is still in a lot of pain. And the pain medications make his speech kind of slurred, so it's hard to hold conversations with him. He's losing time - often cannot keep track of what day it is. And he keeps telling me he is so sick of being stuck there. He said yesterday that the doctors told him they were "optimistic". Neither of us really knows what the hell that means.

I don't even really know how to say how I really feel - the closest thing is exhaustion, bone deep but not on a truly physical level.

Oh Andi. That does sound truly exhausting. I'm still sending out mucho healing vibes to Daniel, and coping and strength and calm ~ma to you.

{{{Andi & Daniel}}}