Can't drink, smoke, diddle my willy. Doesn't leave much to do other than watch you blokes stumble around playing Agatha Christie.

Spike ,'The Cautionary Tale of Numero Cinco'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Calli - May 03, 2013 2:32:55 pm PDT #29716 of 30001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Trudy, I'm glad your step-mother's doing better.


EpicTangent - May 03, 2013 3:48:41 pm PDT #29717 of 30001
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Just got off the phone with a friend (formerly friend-with-benefits) of mine. Totally bombshelled me with the news of his engagement. He and another female friend decided that as close as they were, they'd like to see how things would go if they took it up a notch - apparently they went well. And now he's talking about getting married next April. He's apparently forgotten that he was MY Plan B (5 or 6 years ago we agreed that we would get married if we were both still single when I was 40 and he was 45 - though I wasn't actually planning on enforcing the pact). I've always kinda wondered if we'd ever get around to trying for reals - guess not. I've been prodding at my feelings the way one does a bruise or a loose tooth - test it, see if it hurts - and it really doesn't hurt, thankfully. But I'm overwhelmed with feelings of WTH, or something.

Anyway, don't even need hugs, really. I just sort of needed to write out my feelings about my current headspace. Thanks for letting me.


Cass - May 03, 2013 3:53:26 pm PDT #29718 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

I'm glad your step-mom is doing so well, comparatively. I hope things keep getting better too.

Yeah, that's a little complicated, Epic. I am glad it's not ouchy for you.


smonster - May 03, 2013 3:55:17 pm PDT #29719 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Continued ~ma for your stepmother and family and you, Trudy.

I have had... a not very good day. I did manage to go to Walmart (not my favorite place, but nearby for what roomie and I needed) and the bank. My shoulder is *killing* me and I think I overcaffeinated (switched back to dark roast with chicory from medium without, and drank two cups) which added to the pain have created a panic attack. Heating pad and acupressure aren't doing anything. I'm going to get my first lesson in Alexander technique next week, which I'm hoping will help but will likely require a number of sessions. Blergh.


smonster - May 03, 2013 3:56:05 pm PDT #29720 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Whoa, Epic. Yeah. That kind of thing can definitely mess with the brain.


Trudy Booth - May 03, 2013 6:45:17 pm PDT #29721 of 30001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Apparently our Cassiepants has been busy on buzzfeed

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Cass - May 03, 2013 6:52:43 pm PDT #29722 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

God, I love avocados. I bought one today. I have only 3/4 left. And two fewer Benedryls than I started with this morning.


EpicTangent - May 03, 2013 7:52:35 pm PDT #29723 of 30001
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

How many orgies?


Cass - May 03, 2013 7:59:13 pm PDT #29724 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Not. Enough.


Burrell - May 03, 2013 8:01:00 pm PDT #29725 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I've heard independent confirmation on the guacamole-orgy connection.

Er, but not from Cass, I should add.