I walk. I talk. I shop, I sneeze. I'm gonna be a fireman when the floods roll back. There's trees in the desert since you moved out. And I don't sleep on a bed of bones.

Buffy ,'Chosen'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Strix - May 02, 2013 4:38:26 pm PDT #29635 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Lazy Susans! REALLY NICE picture frames for wedding photos. And yeah, register for a vaccuum. And a steam mop! Pretty shower curtain? Curtains? Humidifier?

I HIGHLY rec registering at Target! You get to go to the store and zap shit with one of those guns, but you can also go to the site and add stuff!

It doesn't have to be kitchen stuff; I got a charging station and a lamp, among other things.

You SHOULD register; tell Tim that otherwise, you will end up with clown statues and "funny" plaques. People want to buy gifts.


beekaytee - May 02, 2013 4:40:59 pm PDT #29636 of 30001
Compassionately intolerant

Congrats, Vortex.

I appreciate the inspiration.

I've started a 30 'cleanse' which, in addition to being responsible with my food, includes the 30 day squat challenge (my quads are _screaming_) and 20 minutes of mediation each day.

I thought I might also try to write something (anything) each day...though I don't know if I'll stick to that one.

It is SO time for a change and my backside is making me uncomfortable.


Liese S. - May 02, 2013 4:42:03 pm PDT #29637 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Seriously, y'all, do not repeat my mistakes. I didn't register (funny how you don't do that for an elopement turned wedding) and I got about a billion towels (seriously, we still have some now, nineteen years in) and an incredibly racist cookie jar.

Register. Let the people buy you things.


Liese S. - May 02, 2013 4:42:34 pm PDT #29638 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

That's awesome, Vortex.


Vortex - May 02, 2013 4:44:40 pm PDT #29639 of 30001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Bonny, one of the reasons that I think that I've been more successful this time is that I am believing that every bit helps, and I'm forgiving myself when I don't follow the plan.


Pix - May 02, 2013 4:47:08 pm PDT #29640 of 30001
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

Vortex, if I could "like" that post I would.


beekaytee - May 02, 2013 4:48:24 pm PDT #29641 of 30001
Compassionately intolerant

My closest supporter said the exact same thing today. She said it in the context of the squat challenge which is making me super uncomfortable.

I'll take your example and do what I can. I just know that if I don't 'go big', I tend to give up too soon. My otherwise fairly useful brain can sure make up...and give into...the most embarrassing excuses.


Hil R. - May 02, 2013 5:00:00 pm PDT #29642 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Just ignore the next request, Hil. You've already answered it.

That's what I was planning to do, except that the next email sounded really desperate in a way that worried me. I forwarded it to my supervisor and asked her how I should respond.


Atropa - May 02, 2013 5:09:03 pm PDT #29643 of 30001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Steph, register for a Roomba.

Go Vortex! That's great, and I especially like this thinking:

iI am believing that every bit helps, and I'm forgiving myself when I don't follow the plan.

I'm trying to trick myself into that mindset right now. Also, I caved and bought myself a Fitbit Zip, and have been pretty happy with it. It is motivating me to actually track my food, which is helpful.


Ginger - May 02, 2013 5:30:11 pm PDT #29644 of 30001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

My current exercise program consists of taking up my water-ruined floor and dragging heavy bags of flooring to the curb. I have gotten to the Y twice this week, though. I am tired.

I think if I were going to do a squat challenge, it would have to consist of one squat the first day, two the second day, etc.