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Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Steph L. - Apr 08, 2013 8:00:41 am PDT #28425 of 30001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

It looks like he worked in construction, on student housing (or possibly off-campus housing) for Longwood University in Virginia: [link]


Zenkitty - Apr 08, 2013 8:05:49 am PDT #28426 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

That's awful! Worse for not having any idea why it happened.


Steph L. - Apr 08, 2013 8:07:08 am PDT #28427 of 30001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Since the man who killed him is in custody, I'm hoping there's some explanation (and that, you know, he offers it up).


sj - Apr 08, 2013 8:11:08 am PDT #28428 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Teppy, that's awful. I'm so sorry. Tons of ~ma for your family.

I need some advice. Several people I have spoken to since my car accident on Friday think I should call the high school near where the accident occurred to mention the way the students behave as they are walking home from school. I used to live right near the school, so I know this wasn't a onetime thing. The students routinely dart off of the sidewalk without looking and push and jostle each other off the sidewalk as well. The girl who essentially caused my accident by darting out in front of my car, thought it was hysterically funny as she walked away. So, should I call the principal of the high school? And, if so, what should I say?


Steph L. - Apr 08, 2013 8:31:32 am PDT #28429 of 30001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

sj, would you be more comfortable writing a letter? (I'm not sure what the best way would be to present the situation in a letter, but it seems easier than a phone call. Also you have the benefit of not being interrupted by the person on the other end of the phone.)


Zenkitty - Apr 08, 2013 8:39:05 am PDT #28430 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

sj, since this is typical behavior for some of these students, this isn't just you being aggrieved (not that you don't have a right to be!); it's a matter of the safety of the students. I would call or write a letter to the principal and just let them know that this dangerous behavior is going on. What they do with the information is up to them. But a kid could get hurt, goofing around like that, or cause serious damage to drivers.


sj - Apr 08, 2013 8:53:38 am PDT #28431 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

sj, would you be more comfortable writing a letter? (I'm not sure what the best way would be to present the situation in a letter, but it seems easier than a phone call. Also you have the benefit of not being interrupted by the person on the other end of the phone.)

A letter would mean signing my name to it, which I'm not sure I want to do because I'm paranoid like that. I think I will probably call, but I don't know how to phrase what I want to say.

sj, since this is typical behavior for some of these students, this isn't just you being aggrieved (not that you don't have a right to be!); it's a matter of the safety of the students. I would call or write a letter to the principal and just let them know that this dangerous behavior is going on. What they do with the information is up to them. But a kid could get hurt, goofing around like that, or cause serious damage to drivers.

Yeah, that is definitely what I'm worried about. If it would just about some scratches on my car, I would care, but I could have easily hit the girl on Friday, and the woman who hit me could have lost her baby.


Laura - Apr 08, 2013 9:07:14 am PDT #28432 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

I agree that contacting the school would be appropriate.

I'm sorry Teppy, what an awful thing for your family to deal with.


Laura - Apr 08, 2013 9:08:31 am PDT #28433 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

sj, you could write or fax anonymously.


Fred Pete - Apr 08, 2013 9:09:32 am PDT #28434 of 30001
Ann, that's a ferret.

All sympathies, Teppy and family. It's a terrible, terrible thing to happen, regardless of the reason.