Anya: It's lovely! I wish it was mine! Oh like you weren't all thinking the same thing. Giles: I'm fairly certain I wasn't.

'The Killer In Me'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Strix - Nov 15, 2011 7:59:22 am PST #2807 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Jen, I'm excited that you're moving to Philly, because that's where we fly in to visit M! Things can Be Arranged!

Proximity: it matters more than you think.

Oh, hells, yeah! When I was working for KY, living in Lawrence, which is less than an hour away from KC, I was utterly miserable. Loved my job, loved my boss, but not having my friends around just made me miserable, exacerbated my depression....I had to quit and move back. No coincidence less than a month after I moved back, I was in the hospital.

(OK, I was working for KU but the typo was way too funny to edit.)

ION, D's company's system has not processed anyone's paychecks - snafu in tech processing -- and none are hitting direct deposit.

You wanna see furious chaos? Have this happen at an IT company who works with FINANCIAL COMPUTER SECURITY FOR THE GOVERNMENT. Apparently, it's frickin' a bloodbath over there tight now...


JenP - Nov 15, 2011 8:11:46 am PST #2808 of 30001

Jen, I'm excited that you're moving to Philly, because that's where we fly in to visit M! Things can Be Arranged!

!!! Awesome. So much awesome!

Apparently, it's frickin' a bloodbath over there tight now...

Holy shit, and I can imagine. That's just... do not mess with people's money, man.


Strix - Nov 15, 2011 8:15:12 am PST #2809 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Yeah...I know they're working on it and people are frothing in rage (rightly so).

I mean, shit happens, but at an IT company? Financial IT?! I'm worried, but I also see the delicious, hilarious irony in this.


Kate P. - Nov 15, 2011 8:49:16 am PST #2810 of 30001
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

Gah, smonster, I'm so sorry. Everyone here is saying very wise things about letting go and not dwelling on unproductive thoughts, but to be honest I kind of just want to go over to his house and thwap him with a major cluestick. I know, I know, not helping. I just really wish things had worked out differently for you.

Jilli, check your inbox in about five minutes and you'll have that cover of "Common People" by MCR.

The who with the what now? And how might I acquire this?

Being friends is hard!

It very much is. Both making new friends and holding onto/keeping up with old ones. Right now I'm feeling kind of distant from a very good friend, and it makes me sad. I'm hoping to see her over Thanksgiving, which will help, but I worry that having a baby is only going to put more distance between us. She lives in Boston and I used to see her all the time; while I was in grad school, I'd stay with her and her husband (also one of my oldest friends) once a week while I was taking classes in the city. That really deepened our friendship, but it seems that since I moved to Nashville, it's been harder for us to stay in touch and the friendship has suffered. I really want to fix that.


DavidS - Nov 15, 2011 8:56:37 am PST #2811 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

And how might I acquire this?

Most likely it'll be in your inbox within the next few minutes.


smonster - Nov 15, 2011 8:58:59 am PST #2812 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

smonster...I miss youuuuuuu

I miss you, too, bebe. It's hard.

I got paid today, which means I start the envelope system today!!


Kate P. - Nov 15, 2011 9:01:45 am PST #2813 of 30001
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

Thanks, Hec! *puts on headphones*


hippocampus - Nov 15, 2011 9:26:32 am PST #2814 of 30001
not your mom's socks.

finding things to furnish with but being judicious about acquiring too much.

You must come to shop in my basement. That is all.

Erin, next time you're in town, shout.


Strix - Nov 15, 2011 9:31:11 am PST #2815 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

I will; I haven't been able to come to Philly area yet with D, because of finances.

But when we can, I will definitely let y'all know.


JenP - Nov 15, 2011 9:35:29 am PST #2816 of 30001

You must come to shop in my basement. That is all.

Ooh, I love that plan! And according to javachick, I need to ask for your hair stylist's name, too.

But when we can, I will definitely let y'all know.

So fun.