Forgive me for being a bit of an asshole about this, but if your practice is in dealing with people who emotionally need professional guidance and assistance, would't it behoove you to communicate a bit better regarding when you are out of touch, out of town, and/or can't be reached?
Thank you! That was how I was looking at it, but I was wondering if I was being too harsh. She's never starts my session on time (but always ends it on time), she brings in photo copies of things for me to read (but can never find all the pages and spends half the session talking to me while trying to find them). Honestly, I feel like a jerk not liking her because she is scattered and disorganized because I'm both of those things, but I'm not the therapist.
Ack, sj. That's hard. I don't love confrontation, but I'm not shy of it, and I personally would rather break up with a therapist over the phone. "I appreciate the help you've given me, but I feel that I need to explore other therapeutic avenues. I'm looking for A, B and C; I value your opinion, can you recommend anyone who might be appropriate?"
sumi, ugh. What a giant PITA. Fingers crossed!
I will remember to take pix of DH in his Dean jacket when he gets home. He's away visiting M in PA this week. I cannot wait!
Ooooh, Strix, you should fill the pockets with little packs of salt and a book of matches. And either a flask or mini-bottle of booze. And maybe a mocked up fake ID with the name of some rock star DH likes.
Suzi, you are a fucking genius! I am so doing that!
Heh, he's already a subcontractor for the govt...I might get his clearance yanked if I did that!
I was thinking an overly fakey looking FBI ID. Nothing that looks like it is really trying to be passable. Like use crayon or Comic Sans or something.
Go for the Bikini Inspector badge then. No sense in messing with an actual clearance when the same joke can easily be made otherwise.
Apparently she was still on vacation until today, which is why she didn't get back to me earlier. Of course, her cellphone is her work phone, so she probably could have called me back even if she wasn't back yet, and she never changed her voicemail to say when she would be away and the message did say she returns phone calls within 24 hours.
You know, I think that even people who use their cell phone are totally entitled to take every bit of their vacation and are under no obligation to return calls during that time. But having said that, ONLY if you communicate that you are on vacation through certain dates on the voicemail. Change your message, therapist. This is the contract we have!
I saw people, talked to strangers even and am applying for a couple of jobs (those I have to do now) and then I am done for the day.
We're doing Easter next weekend and tiniest nephlet has a something-like-baseball game on Saturday so I am going to that as well. But in planning it out, I sent a questioning email to Mom about what *she* wanted because either option really worked for me and she answered me. Clearly. She's in awful pain and this is going to be hard but I think she's going to get through. She sounds strong considering. I was really grateful. We're all checking up on each other and just in touch more that usual but in a good way.
Okay, I need to figure out exactly what this job is and the best way to get them to hopefully hire me.
Go for the Bikini Inspector badge then
Oh, oh, oh, oh - Teddy Bear Doctor!
You have a *nice* sister, Strix. That's a good gift.
sj, IMO this comment is far more relevant than her failure to change her voicemail message:
She's aggravated that I sounded aggravated on the phone yesterday.
Everyone makes mistakes, although I do think not changing the message to reflect being on vacation is a mistake. But not being able to hide her own aggravation at you for your reaction is a sign. Her job is to be there for you, even when you're mad at her. I also think most therapists would be OK with you asking for a reference for another therapist, or at least they should be.
