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Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Trudy Booth - Mar 08, 2013 10:17:35 am PST #27180 of 30001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

And also, I don't care about wearing white. But I don't think the style is right for the type of wedding we're having. I'm really torn.

If you're thinking along the lines of "a bed and breakfast environment isn't going to to be as dressy as all that" I suggest you fully embrace the notion that there is nothing wrong with being over-dressed so long as you are FABULOUSLY over-dressed.

Particularly if you're the bride.


Steph L. - Mar 08, 2013 10:18:47 am PST #27181 of 30001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

your cherry dress that had a kind of 50s vibe to it as well.

I wore that dress for my brother's wedding. And then the bodice started showing a lot of wear, so I had a tailor cut the bodice off and make the skirt into, well, a skirt. Which I still wear (although the zipper needs to be mended).


Steph L. - Mar 08, 2013 10:19:49 am PST #27182 of 30001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

If you're thinking along the lines of "a bed and breakfast environment isn't going to to be as dress as all that"

That is pretty much my reservation about the blue dress.

I suggest you fully embrace the notion that there is nothing wrong with being over-dressed so long as you are FABULOUSLY over-dressed.

Particularly if you're the bride.

Also very true.


Trudy Booth - Mar 08, 2013 10:28:13 am PST #27183 of 30001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

I once wore a gold lame dress to a sorta-hip in a loft we-all-wear-black party. It was AWESOME.


askye - Mar 08, 2013 10:30:46 am PST #27184 of 30001
Thrive to spite them

The dress is dressy but not so formal that you and Tim would look mismatched - you in that dress and him in a suit and tie instead of a tux.


Connie Neil - Mar 08, 2013 10:38:20 am PST #27185 of 30001
brillig

I wore a full wedding dress and Hubby was in a tux in his parents' living room, you can wear a smashing dress in a B&B.


P.M. Marc - Mar 08, 2013 10:43:35 am PST #27186 of 30001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Yeah, and if you're worried about it being too formal, just have the hem raised to tea length.

OH! Do you have a tiara picked out????

Can we please talk about your wedding some more? It's seriously my happy place right now.


Beverly - Mar 08, 2013 11:04:11 am PST #27187 of 30001
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Teppy, that blue is just so perfect--you rock the style, and the color will be fantastic on you, with the ring, and with Tim's tie. Until and unless you find an even perfecter dress--and I doubt such exists--that's your dress. Even, as Plei suggests, at tea length.


Atropa - Mar 08, 2013 11:04:18 am PST #27188 of 30001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

If you're thinking along the lines of "a bed and breakfast environment isn't going to to be as dressy as all that" I suggest you fully embrace the notion that there is nothing wrong with being over-dressed so long as you are FABULOUSLY over-dressed.

THIS. WORDS OF TRUTH.

I love the blue dress, and I knew which tie Tim had picked out before I even clicked the link.


JZ - Mar 08, 2013 11:06:56 am PST #27189 of 30001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

I'm going to be contrarian and say the first dress for the ceremony and the second dress for everything else, because it's your day and if you've fallen in love with two dresses, you should have two dresses. If you can rock both kinds of pretty, you should.

Plus, costume changes on your wedding day are so very Dita von Teese (but, in your case, with a universes-better groom).