We're not gonna die. We can't die, Bendis. You know why? Because we are so very pretty. We are just too pretty for God to let us die.

Mal ,'Serenity'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


erin_obscure - Mar 05, 2013 9:55:12 pm PST #27093 of 30001
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

I'm loving the wedding talk, happy new is happy!

in other happy news, first date with cute geeky pilot guy went very well, in spite of the appointed restaurant being closed without notice (boo!) and having to relocate a few miles away. And bonus: he also has mid-week "weekends" so my working weekends is totally not an issue. He still lives in Washougal, but has a car and doesn't mind driving so I'm calling it a win for now.

eta: having a car is actually kinda a big deal here, the last 4 guys I dated in Portland didn't drive. Bike and mass transit only. Can be problematic when you live far apart.


smonster - Mar 06, 2013 2:56:24 am PST #27094 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Congrats to Biyi indeed!! That's wonderful.

Glad Ellie is feeling better.

erin, yay for a good date! I hope things keep going well.

If I make it to St. Patty's Day without getting sick, it'll be a miracle. I'm nodding now as I type this, though I'm listening to NPR as I type (am on the ferry).


Steph L. - Mar 06, 2013 7:07:27 am PST #27095 of 30001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

You will all regret encouraging me to post wedding things. (Muwahahahaha.)

Possible table decorations (the pictures in jars): [link]

I can totally make those.


lisah - Mar 06, 2013 7:09:29 am PST #27096 of 30001
Punishingly Intricate

I love all your wedding talk, Steph!!


DavidS - Mar 06, 2013 7:12:01 am PST #27097 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I can totally make those.

Those look cool. But don't commit to doing TOO much of your own stuff by yourself or you're going to stressed out of your mind and staying up until midnight the last couple days before your wedding crafting like a damn fool.


P.M. Marc - Mar 06, 2013 7:17:53 am PST #27098 of 30001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Also, don't make decorations you'll want to keep FOREVER.

Because it'll be hard enough to get rid of the ones you, y'know, don't.

You should tap the Buffista Crafters and have us do the work!


Steph L. - Mar 06, 2013 7:20:40 am PST #27099 of 30001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

But don't commit to doing TOO much of your own stuff by yourself

I actually possess NO crafty DIY skills, so that's not a big concern. I can put photos in mason jars, though.

(But if I start talking about taking classes to learn decoupage -- whatever that is [seriously, I have no idea] -- take my keys and tell me I must chill.)


Steph L. - Mar 06, 2013 7:23:24 am PST #27100 of 30001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

You should tap the Buffista Crafters and have us do the work!

We're going to look at the B&B Saturday, and unless it's on a Hellmouth, I think we'll be booking it for September. (What am I saying? ESPECIALLY if it's on a Hellmouth, we'll be booking it.) So once I can actually see the space, I'll know what we might want.

But seriously, for a late September wedding, I'm thinking table decorations of photos in jars, candles, and tiny pumpkins. Because TINY PUMPKINS.


askye - Mar 06, 2013 7:40:53 am PST #27101 of 30001
Thrive to spite them

Steph tiny pumpkins sound great!

Decoupage is just gluing pictures to stuff. Which doesn't mean it's not without it's own issues and perils but it's stuff like gluing comic book pages to a table top or something like that.

And I got an email back from my landlady, explaining why her relationship didn't work out (didn't really need to know that) and one sentence about how I can stay as long as I like.

Which I guess is good, but I'm still going to be looking at places that might fit me better.


Burrell - Mar 06, 2013 9:04:18 am PST #27102 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Yay erin for a good first date, plus YAY TINY PUMPKINS!