My friend injured her finger while fixing a sprinkler head and the ER cut her ring off. She hadn't taken it off in about 30 years and she was way more upset about the ring than her finger. I am not that sentimental at all. If my finger gets injured cut them off right away please.

DH took the car to get an estimate and indeed the frame is bent where I hit the tree. When I saw I was going to get hit I sped up and turned to avoid getting t-boned and likely seriously hurt. This caused me to swerve off the wet road into the grass and smash into the palm tree which smooshed in the back passenger side door. Or the other guy clipping my rear end caused me to spin out, either way, DH assured me that this was a better option than me getting smooshed.

Wah, ok I am letting this go. And have a renewed commitment to riding my bike.

Laura, the nice metal shell of a car is much more preservative than a bike, which you were right, you shouldn't ride in the rain, anyway. There are pros and cons, really.

I'm sorry about your car. But I'm glad you're okay. And if it had to happen, I'm glad the other driver was a nice person and a mensch.

Meanwhile, I'm just grinning at all the Tep'n'Tim engagement talk.

ETA: I just remembered, when H was burned, he got his ring off before there was any swelling. I wore it on my finger with mine as a guard for the ten days or so before he was able to wear it again.

Laura, just echoing what everyone else said, glad you're not hurt, and don't stress too much about it! Shit happens, right?

"We call that one, Bitey."

Ahahaha!

Jewelry is dangerous.

Laura sorry you had an accident, glad the guy was nice.

smonser, sorry to throw out a term and not define. Mixed state is having the symptoms of mania and depression at the same time. I've been feeling jittery and restless and like I want to crawl out of my skin, talking fast, but also sad and weepy and irritable.

Will came over this morning and we had breakfast. Not at our usual place, it's closed not sure what's going on. I introduced Will to Raising Hope the other day so we watched three episodes.

I just feel stupid because I know better than to exit that way because visibility is so bad. And now my car is wrecked.

I totally empathize. When I got hit last year, I was cursing myself because I know that visibility is shit at that intersection and that people often speed. it was my own damned fault, and my beautiful car is gone. So, I feel ya.

But, as I said, the only irreplacable thing is me. It's a pain in the ass, but you walked away.

I am really stressed out because I am in an renter hell of my own making.

Here we are: last spring I signed a lease and then lost it. Been going month to month but got into a terrible financial situation last Spring/early Summer that put me way behind. Thought I got caught up in the fall but was wrong. I've been given notice that they will not allow me to stay and I have until Feb 28th to get out.

I am very stressed and don't know what I'm going to do.

Exactly, Vortex.

I'm sorry about the unpleasant moods, askye. Good to hear you were able to spend time with Will today.

February 28!!! Yikes sumi.

Sumi!!!

Can you ask them for an additional 30 days?

sumi, I would think that legally they have to give you 30 days. When did they tell you that you couldn't stay?