And now my boy's in love. All hearts and flowers. But, doesn't it freak you out that she used to change your diapers? I mean, when you think about it, the first woman you boned is the closest thing you've ever had to a mother. Doing your mom and trying to kill your dad. Hm. There should be a play.

Angelus ,'Damage'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


sj - Jan 24, 2013 11:32:30 am PST #25461 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Hil, best of luck!


brenda m - Jan 24, 2013 11:41:49 am PST #25462 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Here's a funny coincidence I was reminded of today. About 7 or 8 years ago, a dude knocked on my apartment door. He lived below me and his bathroom ceiling had just caved in - as it turned out from a water leak inside the wall that they eventually had to knock down my bedroom wall to fix.

I just interviewed that dude for a job. And in fact, at the time all this wall destruction happened he actually had my job.


Strix - Jan 24, 2013 11:49:53 am PST #25463 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

I think it's a fantastic idea, Scrappy.


SuziQ - Jan 24, 2013 11:52:08 am PST #25464 of 30001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Very weird stuff, brenda. Is he a good candidate for the job?

Scrappy...what everyone else has said. Go school!


Hil R. - Jan 24, 2013 11:54:39 am PST #25465 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I think the home visit went pretty well. The woman who came said that the person who runs the rescue will get in touch with me about the next steps.


le nubian - Jan 24, 2013 11:57:59 am PST #25466 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

Scrappy,

also, many institutions also have financial support geared toward "older" graduate students, so you might be able to have some additional financial assistance as well.

I think the buffista populace endorse your idea!

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brenda m - Jan 24, 2013 12:00:01 pm PST #25467 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Very weird stuff, brenda. Is he a good candidate for the job?

Nah, we agreed it's not right for him. But still so funny.

We did meet once in the intervening years, about 4 years ago at a going away party for someone else, which is how we first made the connection. But I'd forgotten that this was the same guy.

Also funny: Lucy seems to have made an impression on him. On both occasions, he was all "you've got a really big dog, right? And you used to live at 515 Briar?"


beekaytee - Jan 24, 2013 3:28:55 pm PST #25468 of 30001
Compassionately intolerant

So, I'm kinda thinking of going back to school to get a Master's in Social Work to become a therapist. I'm 56. Is this nuts?

I totally endorse this plan Scrappy.

I was 40 when I finished my MS and, in the ensuing years realized something that should have been obvious to me from the outset. People are more comfortable talking to someone with some miles on them.

I certainly support your practice by buying a Scrappy Is Wise t-shirt.


Ginger - Jan 24, 2013 6:42:47 pm PST #25469 of 30001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

You're already a wonderful therapist, Scrappy. Your wise words have helped me many times. All you need is the piece of paper.


Hil R. - Jan 25, 2013 3:49:07 am PST #25470 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Oy. I'm not friends with my mother on facebook. A while ago, I promised her that, when I had kids, if I was posting photos and stories about them on facebook, then I'd friend her. She just sent me a message trying to convince me that this promise extends to her "granddog," as well.