I hope you don't think that I just come over for the spells and everything. I mean, I really like just talking and hanging out with you and stuff.

Willow ,'First Date'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

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beekaytee - Jan 24, 2013 3:28:55 pm PST #25468 of 30001
Compassionately intolerant

So, I'm kinda thinking of going back to school to get a Master's in Social Work to become a therapist. I'm 56. Is this nuts?

I totally endorse this plan Scrappy.

I was 40 when I finished my MS and, in the ensuing years realized something that should have been obvious to me from the outset. People are more comfortable talking to someone with some miles on them.

I certainly support your practice by buying a Scrappy Is Wise t-shirt.


Ginger - Jan 24, 2013 6:42:47 pm PST #25469 of 30001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

You're already a wonderful therapist, Scrappy. Your wise words have helped me many times. All you need is the piece of paper.


Hil R. - Jan 25, 2013 3:49:07 am PST #25470 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Oy. I'm not friends with my mother on facebook. A while ago, I promised her that, when I had kids, if I was posting photos and stories about them on facebook, then I'd friend her. She just sent me a message trying to convince me that this promise extends to her "granddog," as well.


SailAweigh - Jan 25, 2013 4:47:30 am PST #25471 of 30001
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

What la-nubian said, Scrappy. I work for the Adult Career and Special Student Services dept. on my campus and we offer a number of different grants and scholarships for returning adult students: [link]

If you scroll down, you'll see a number of links to general resources: websites to look for other scholarships, financial advice, government assistance, etc.


Hil R. - Jan 25, 2013 6:04:27 am PST #25472 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I friended my mom. I figure I'll have a better chance of her being willing to dogsit if I go away for a few weeks during the summer if she thinks of the dog as her granddog. Plus, I'm getting tired of her complaining about not being my friend.


Scrappy - Jan 25, 2013 6:14:24 am PST #25473 of 30001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Thank you all for the support and the info. Buffistas are the best.


Laura - Jan 25, 2013 6:17:25 am PST #25474 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

Note to self, no more bawdy stories about Hil on Facebook.

My parents always love the granddog pics posted.


Liese S. - Jan 25, 2013 6:20:47 am PST #25475 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

I totally send granddog pics to the folks' digital picture frame.


sumi - Jan 25, 2013 6:41:27 am PST #25476 of 30001
Art Crawl!!!

Max is the most popular dog name in the US.


beekaytee - Jan 25, 2013 6:52:01 am PST #25477 of 30001
Compassionately intolerant

Daisy was the most common female dog name for a long time. These days though, I see a ton of Emma, Lucy, Emily and Maggie. For boy dogs in this area, Jack has to be the all-time leader.

This seems to follow the 'grand dog' thing. Naming your dog like a child is super common.

I _love_ to see the families I deal with having multi-generation support systems for their pooches.