Hmmm, if there were no convictions, then why is all that info (including mug shots) out there? Couldn't people sue for that? I know I sure as hell would if I were charged and cleared.
Does anybody mind if I pass out?
Willow ,'Beneath You'
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Glamcookie - Jan 21, 2013 12:09:42 pm PST #25349 of 30001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
Laura - Jan 21, 2013 12:23:13 pm PST #25350 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.
He was listed on the national registry, Megan's List. Ugh. I do not envy you in this situation, omnis.
omnis_audis - Jan 21, 2013 12:32:00 pm PST #25351 of 30001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir
The no convictions is only saying "in the juristrictions that report electronically that we have access to, there are no convictions." as I understand it
Pix - Jan 21, 2013 12:45:57 pm PST #25352 of 30001
The status is NOT quo.
He has convictions or he wouldn't be flagged via Megan's Law; I don't believe him for a flat second. I'm so sorry Omnis. I do think you need to take some steps to protect yourself though. He has stayed with you--you may be liable if you don't report him. He is also a handyman; I would change your locks.
DavidS - Jan 21, 2013 1:20:13 pm PST #25353 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
I don't believe him for a flat second.
Yeah, I don't either. I'd have a professional background check done to get the whole story.
Vortex - Jan 21, 2013 1:26:07 pm PST #25354 of 30001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
The no convictions is only saying "in the juristrictions that report electronically that we have access to, there are no convictions." as I understand it
Note the wording. If they don't want to pay the fees, or if they don't have adequate security for the jurisdiction, for example, a search is going to come back clean.
Pix - Jan 21, 2013 1:41:44 pm PST #25355 of 30001
The status is NOT quo.
Sadly, I don't know how much you can do to convince your mom given his stories to her. It's such a shitty position to be in, hon. I'm really sorry.
Laura - Jan 21, 2013 1:46:19 pm PST #25356 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.
Unfortunately there isn't much you can do with adults other than present your views and stand your ground. She has the option to have him in her home, but you don't have to ever see him again. I hope it at least has opened a question in her mind. It is really hard to believe someone you care about is evil. I am just so sorry you have to deal with this.
Vortex - Jan 21, 2013 1:48:43 pm PST #25357 of 30001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
Laura - Jan 21, 2013 1:53:50 pm PST #25358 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.
And an adorable little tummy it is! Seriously, she has a lovely figure.