I've got multiple text files of his drugs, but an actual spreadsheet is a brilliant idea. Easy to organize and modify. These forms are ridiculous, though, they have a small box for "list of drugs" and his prescriptions number in the high teens.

For his surgeries, we're going to put in "multiple spinal over a decade adn a half, multiple heart procedures over a decade and a halve, multiple joint procedures--please see records." You'd think the hospital where these things have been done at would have a way to link these things together.

Darlings, there is too much overwhelming for all of us now. I just do not have the wherewithal to specify to each of you the good thoughts and warm wishes you deserve. Please believe I am sending them, anyway.

Connie,

Google docs is a good spreadsheet because it has a mobile version that I was able to view on motorola razr phone years ago. I suppose it isn't a good idea to put a lot of personal, confidential info in it, but otherwise it is okay. If the doctors are Internet savvy, you could share a link with them and then expire it later.

What Scrappy said so gorgeously.

I've had to be very stern with him, pointing out to him that he is dishonoring that person's nobility by refusing to accept an honest gift (I know how my beloved's brain is wired, I know how his values are coded).

It must be very hard. On both of you.

I think the spreadsheet is a really good idea. Something easy to print or send and say, here, here is the exceedingly long list of medications or prior surgeries or evolving taste in cheeses. Probably mostly the medical stuff though.

The way he sees it, he's supposed to take care of me, I should never have to take care of him. I think I could be Black Widow and he'd be supposed to take care of me. to suggest otherwise is to suggest that the Earth rotates around the Moon and chocolate is evil.

My Dad felt (feels?) this way about my Stepmom. Not in a bad way like she couldn't take care of herself and, really, everything else. Just that he loved her and the most important thing in his world was that she was his beloved.

Connie, I can see that that would be hard on both of you. Much surgery and coping~ma to you both.

Connie, we see medical records all the time where the medication, problems, and surgery sections just say - see attached. Then a document listing the printed history items is attached. I don't know where your hospital and doctors are with electronic records, but the EHR systems all create and read CCR files. A file is created with all the history items than can be read by any certified EHR system because of the standards that exist. Our software creates and reads these files and all the other ones out there do too.

But as far as filling out the admission forms, they should be fine with taking a printout of the meds, surgery, and problems. (It will be in the near future when they will ask if you have a CCR, or will just ask you to verify the history your PCP already transfered via CCR)

More blathering after I get more coffee. My son is 21 today. Wow!

More blathering after I get more coffee. My son is 21 today. Wow!

Happy Birthday, son of Laura! My nephew is 17 today.

Connie, so much ~ma for you and your DH today. I'm sorry that you have to deal with these surgery's so often.

Tea: Those beans that I mentioned the other day were apparently destined for the trash. I did make soup with them last night, which we ate several bowls of, and then this morning TCG and I realized it never made it to the fridge.

Happy birthday to your son, Laura. May 21 be a good year for both of you.

We likely should all have died around here for all the stuff that gets left on the counter, in the microwave, in the oven, and then gets consumed. We are way too loose with those rules.

We'll see how 21 goes. I did give him a 'welcome to being an adult' talk where I explained that the buck now stops with him. This is it. Line in sand. I also gave him a Nook that he is over the moon about. His dad and a couple other people suggested that it may get stolen because of the company he keeps. If that happens it is just a lesson he needs to learn. He was so psyched he right away found a pdf version of the book he just took out from the library and zoomed to his current page so he could return the book. It was nice to see him giddy as a kid over the new toy.