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Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

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sj - Dec 03, 2012 11:47:58 am PST #23449 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Is it still ok to cook beans that I accidentally soaked for the last 18 hours?

Still no word about the diagnosis for my computer. I'm still hoping for less than a month.


DavidS - Dec 03, 2012 11:56:06 am PST #23450 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Is it still ok to cook beans that I accidentally soaked for the last 18 hours?

I would.


smonster - Dec 03, 2012 3:07:38 pm PST #23451 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

hanging out with Javachik, Lee, juliana, and Christian Kane. Like at a coffee shop and we were all just chit chatting. A dream with Christian Kane and no sexy times? My brain is broken.

I dreamed several years ago that I let Christian Kane take a nap in my bed (while I was entertaining guests or something, IDK) and he left without saying thank you and I was annoyed. I also once dreamed that I asked his bandmate (Steve) to take a picture of Christian Kane and me, and he was super annoyed, and then my camera didn't even take a picture. So maybe it's something about CK?

I remember trying to win an argument with Tim by proclaiming "Internal junk, man! INTERNAL JUNK!" (I don't remember the argument itself, or if I won, but I feel that such a proclamation had to have been successful.)

I love this proclamation.

Holiday pick-up work in catering/bars? Pet-sitting?

I have zero service industry experience. Pet-sitting, maybe? I have a neighbor who wants to me change out her door, that could be some $$. I'm trying to line up side work with a friend who has a preservation business, but that won't be until January. IDK. I have another coworker that I could see if he wants help with side jobs. I could gift wrap... I'm pretty good at that. I wonder if there's a local store that needs wrapping assistance.

I just told my landlady that I'm moving out - not giving notice, exactly, but that it's going to happen. She was completely unsurprised (we discussed the possibility a couple of months ago) and understanding. There's even a chance I could rent her mom's house down the street, which is nearly done being renovated. It's a 3BR and not a shotgun so I could have roommates.

So yay that the convo went well. I guess I need to start haunting Craigslist.


Dana - Dec 03, 2012 3:14:04 pm PST #23452 of 30001
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

What about seasonal retail, smonster?


sj - Dec 03, 2012 3:30:49 pm PST #23453 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

{{{smonster}}} I'm sorry that things are so tough right now. I hope you can figure something out that works for you.

My uncle, the one with the recurring collapsed lung is back in hospital again. The lung isn't completely collapsed this time, but it needed to be hooked up to a machine again. Can I get some ~ma for him and some sanity~ma for the rest of the family? Everyone is under so much stress.


smonster - Dec 03, 2012 4:22:50 pm PST #23454 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

What about seasonal retail, smonster?

No retail experience, either! How the hell I got this far without waiting tables or selling stuff, IDK. I was a grocery store cashier once.

Breaking news, Craigslist is depressing. So many scams.


Nora Deirdre - Dec 03, 2012 4:58:47 pm PST #23455 of 30001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

P. just advertised a barback position at the Pub. Don't think you need bartending experience, just be good at carrying kegs and washing glasses, I think? Let me know if you're interested and I can see if I can help at all.


smonster - Dec 03, 2012 5:23:11 pm PST #23456 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Saw that on fb, thanks Nora. I am not sure I can carry a full keg, actually! Lemme think on it a day or so and I'll let you know.


askye - Dec 04, 2012 2:38:34 am PST #23457 of 30001
Thrive to spite them

smonster you've got experience working with people and that's important in retail. Retail is not the most exciting thing but it never hurts to apply. Working a cash register is fairly easy.


meara - Dec 04, 2012 8:17:59 am PST #23458 of 30001

I have drunk EmergenC instead of coffee this morning. I am worried the tickle in my lungs is going to become real. NOOOO!