And I wonder, what possible catastrophe came crashing down from heaven and brought this dashing stranger to tears?

Drusilla ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


beekaytee - Nov 17, 2012 9:49:24 am PST #22966 of 30001
Compassionately intolerant

Oddly, I was the human of our Jenny cat's heart, and I loved her, but she wasn't my heart-cat. And TC *is* that heart-cat for me, and he loves me. But Dad is his human.

Beverly, this is so interesting to me, like Plei saying that she needs to be patient with Bluebell and having cats bonded to different people.

I wonder if my bond with Bartleby was sort of lightening in a bottle. Thankfully, I learned, from him, to be much more patient than I EVER realized I could, so Cagney benefits.

Maybe Cagney is less into me, knowing I'm not as into him.

...Nah. He's be this way with anyone, I think...unless I was 24 inches high. He loves, loves, LOVES him some small people. Which is sort of fascinating to me.

I apologize for being all sentimental and repeaty. It's just that last year at this time, I was watching Bartleby suffer and praying that it would be the answer to all our problems. Now that I know the end of that story, it's hard to be anything other than sad.

On the other hand, Cagney is having a ball mauling a beef neckbone. He's been at it for 50 minutes. Blood and bone, my version of sitting the toddler in front of a video.


omnis_audis - Nov 17, 2012 9:54:02 am PST #22967 of 30001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

(((( SHIR)))) May these virtual hugs squeeze the stress out of you. Use us as your rock. Your grounding rod. Your comfort zone. Your sounding board. We are here for you. Stay calm. Carry On. Stay safe. Keep your wits about you. And do what you do.


beekaytee - Nov 17, 2012 10:09:25 am PST #22968 of 30001
Compassionately intolerant

Aaaand, pulling my head out of my own backside, I ditto this:

(((( SHIR)))) May these virtual hugs squeeze the stress out of you. Use us as your rock. Your grounding rod. Your comfort zone. Your sounding board. We are here for you. Stay calm. Carry On. Stay safe. Keep your wits about you. And do what you do.

Much strength to you and yours, Shir.


sj - Nov 17, 2012 10:21:40 am PST #22969 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

{{{{{Shir}}}}} All sorts of ~ma for you and yours. I'm so glad you're checking in here. I think friends and family have finally gotten it through to my cousin and his BF that they need to check in MUCH more often to let us know they're ok.


smonster - Nov 17, 2012 10:47:52 am PST #22970 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

(((( SHIR)))) May these virtual hugs squeeze the stress out of you. Use us as your rock. Your grounding rod. Your comfort zone. Your sounding board. We are here for you. Stay calm. Carry On. Stay safe. Keep your wits about you. And do what you do.

Absofreakinglutely.

bonny, keep talking as long as you like and need. Nodding along and wishing I could hug you in person, should you like.

I did lots of dishes and put a chicken carcass in the crockpot to make broth for stew. I also put away a bunch of clean clothes. Can I go nap with D now?


Stephanie - Nov 17, 2012 12:50:13 pm PST #22971 of 30001
Trust my rage

So, Frisco just ran away from me at the zoo. I looked for him for a few minutes and then stopped a staff person. Their response was amazing and they found him within a minute. At the FRONT GATE! We had been at the opposite end of the zoo when he took off.

Why did he run? Because I had discovered about 25 pictures in my iPhone that he had taken of his anus and I laughed out loud because how unexpected! But he was embarrassed and took off.


sj - Nov 17, 2012 1:25:10 pm PST #22972 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Yikes, Stephanie! I'm glad Frisco is safe.


smonster - Nov 17, 2012 1:28:22 pm PST #22973 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Oh my goodness!! How old is he? I guess that's one way to find out what it looks like. Glad the park staff nabbed him.


Stephanie - Nov 17, 2012 1:49:20 pm PST #22974 of 30001
Trust my rage

He's 4. I think he thought he was being sort of scandalous and than I made him feel bad. I've mostly calmed down now but I can tell that I'm still very unsettled inside.


meara - Nov 17, 2012 1:56:19 pm PST #22975 of 30001

Wow, Frisco, quit scaring your mom! Geez.

I went to pick up my bib for tomorrow's race, then to Target and bought random on-sale Turkey Day stuff (nothing refrigerated), and then went to JoAnn's and got some massively on sale doo-dads (like a sleeve board)