Now hold on, I'm gonna press the right pedal harder. I expect us to accelerate.

Anya ,'Showtime'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Liese S. - Oct 15, 2012 9:47:10 pm PDT #21402 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Oh, erin, that sucks.


EpicTangent - Oct 15, 2012 9:47:36 pm PDT #21403 of 30001
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Ugh, what an asshole.

Clearly, it just wasn't the right time for you to do this...perhaps if you're ever inspired to try again, you can have a coach who's into actual, y'know, coaching - helpful, encouraging, gently correcting - rather than a snarky little bitchface.

If it helps at all, I, and many other bitches hereabouts, think you're pretty awesome.


erin_obscure - Oct 15, 2012 10:00:15 pm PDT #21404 of 30001
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

Aw, thanks :) It's just amazing how reading that even after months made my face burn red and hot with repressed anger, like I needed to defend myself but there's just no point and never was. So I worked out and petted my kitties and had a good sleep. It still stings. It's so hard to let certain things go.


EpicTangent - Oct 15, 2012 10:10:37 pm PDT #21405 of 30001
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Well, yeah, high-stress situation, feeling bad because it didn't go the way you wanted it to, then, instead of support, an additional attack? You'll probably have to let it go a few more times before it's really gone.

Wow, that did not come out as supportive as I meant it to. My point was your feelings are completely understandable, not that you need permission to feel your feelings, but in case you're feeling like you're being too emotional or whatever, it seems like a perfectly reasonable response to me.

Anyway, I hope you're able to permanently evict him from your head very soon.


omnis_audis - Oct 16, 2012 12:56:07 am PDT #21406 of 30001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

((( Erin O )))

All things will pass, so too will this. And that which doesn't kill ya, makes ya stronger. So, when this becomes a memory, and the scab is healed, use it. learn from it. move on. And maybe, go for the promotion during the winter months next time. Either way. We all think you rock!


Stephanie - Oct 16, 2012 2:38:15 am PDT #21407 of 30001
Trust my rage

There's an AV, not an AB.

Okay, I can tell I was worried last night because I was even wondering how and AB would help with a virus, but I guess my brain didn't follow that thought to the end. I think the side effects are more serious AND Sammy is still 8 months old. I guess, having thought about it ALL night, I'd rather he have chicken pox.

Erin, so sorry your coach was so...not a coach. Sounds like he was really not good a what he was doing because there really isn't a place for snide comments in coaching. Even if you made mistakes, you were supposed to be learning; he wasn't.


sj - Oct 16, 2012 3:24:24 am PDT #21408 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Poor, Sammy! I hope he is feeling better soon.

{{{Erin}}} That sounds like an awful experience. I'm sorry.

~ma to all the other sick Bitches. I'm feeling better today, except I have zero energy.

A very Bitches t-shirt: link.


sj - Oct 16, 2012 5:11:29 am PDT #21409 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Tea:

A friend posted about her anniversary on facebook today, which reminded me that mine is next month. So, I ordered a nice bottle of Scotch from the liquor store for TCG. It's from the distillery we visited last year. They don't carry it, but they claim it is orderable, another liquor store said it wasn't, so I hope they are right.


Nora Deirdre - Oct 16, 2012 5:16:09 am PDT #21410 of 30001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Which distillery, sj?


sj - Oct 16, 2012 5:18:59 am PDT #21411 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Glengoyne.