Oh! I know this one! 'Slaying entails certain sacrifices, blah blah blahbity blah, I'm so stuffy, gimme a scone.'

Buffy ,'Help'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Steph L. - Nov 02, 2011 11:23:35 pm PDT #2075 of 30001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Migraine-induced insomnia (augmented by the meds, which have caffeine in them -- UNFAIR). God DAMN, it is 4:25 a.m.

Looks like a half-day tomorrow. Heavier drugs and hot compress, here I come.


Hil R. - Nov 03, 2011 2:11:37 am PDT #2076 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I've been using the FlyLady stuff that makes sense for me, and ignoring the rest, as well as rolling my eyes at the perkiness. But it's really helpful to me to have things broken down into steps and small tasks. Like, today's task is to pick up all the jackets and shoes and stuff that collect by the front door and put them where they belong. Which I know needs to be done, but so do a million other things, and I would have gotten bogged down in trying to decide which thing to do first and ended up doing nothing.


brenda m - Nov 03, 2011 2:49:21 am PDT #2077 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Me, too. My main solution has been to put dishes away whenever I'm microwaving something. Of course, that's during the brief periods when the dishwasher is working.

That's exactly what I do. When I microwave or am making coffee I load and unload or clear crap off the counter. It helps things not get too far out of hand.


sj - Nov 03, 2011 6:29:34 am PDT #2078 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

So I decided to sign up for flylady e-mails last night just to see if it would be helpful to me, and since then I have gotten 7 emails from the website. Is this a normal day with flylady or is this just a lot of introductory stuff all at once? Because honestly, I find 7 e-mails in 24 hours from the same website more annoying than helpful.


Strix - Nov 03, 2011 6:46:09 am PDT #2079 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

sj, that's one of the reason I unsubbed, besides the too fucking cheerful about cleaning -- too many damn emails.


sumi - Nov 03, 2011 6:49:26 am PDT #2080 of 30001
Art Crawl!!!

If you switch to digest, is it better?


le nubian - Nov 03, 2011 7:05:50 am PDT #2081 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

yes, switch it to digest. I did that and I think I get an email a week.

However, in direct opposition to flylady style: I do not read the email messages.


Hil R. - Nov 03, 2011 7:06:56 am PDT #2082 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Yeah, I use the digest thing and get one email a day.


Steph L. - Nov 03, 2011 7:08:48 am PDT #2083 of 30001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

How are you guys getting one e-mail a week? I must have selected "every day" for the digest -- it's just one long e-mail a day (the individual e-mails are broken up with headers, etc; it's not just an unrelenting wall of text). Individual e-mails would be too overwhelming for me.

I skim over about 60% of the messages most days.

t edit But one digest e-mail per day is fine for me; I read it over coffee in the morning.


smonster - Nov 03, 2011 7:35:09 am PDT #2084 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I heat up canned cat food over hot water (no microwave) in the mornings and evenings, set a timer for seven minutes, and empty the drain board and do dishes. I still have to do another 10-15 minutes of dishes, but it's helpful to tie it into something I have to wait on.

Puppy boy was hella late (2 hrs) and so I wrote him up. Sorry you're having a suck day; set an alarm on your phone.