Oh Cass. It's so hard, and I'm so sorry. You are such a good person.
I could squeeze you until you popped like warm champagne, and you'd beg me to hurt you just a little bit more.
Fuffy ,'Storyteller'
Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Pix - Sep 23, 2012 9:50:49 pm PDT #20638 of 30001
The status is NOT quo.
Cass - Sep 23, 2012 11:40:01 pm PDT #20639 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
It's one of the hardest things you'll ever go through. I won't lie and say it gets better because it doesn't, but you do eventually come to terms with it and learn to hold on tightly to moments like that one.
I don't think comforting is the right word, but this helps. Thank you. I can't really articulate it better right now but it's actually better to hear that, yes, it's awful, realistically going to get worse but that I will also make it through. That I will always have the memories of my Dad and maybe I can add a few more good memories.
Polter-Cow - Sep 24, 2012 3:44:50 am PDT #20640 of 30001
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!
{{Cass}}
Burrell - Sep 24, 2012 6:09:39 am PDT #20641 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
Oh Cass! Sending you lots of love and support right now. Feel free to contact me any time.
NoiseDesign - Sep 24, 2012 6:56:51 am PDT #20642 of 30001
Our wings are not tired
Thinking of you Cass.
amyth - Sep 24, 2012 7:22:59 am PDT #20643 of 30001
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen
So much love to you, Cass.
brenda m - Sep 24, 2012 7:45:31 am PDT #20644 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
Big hugs to Scrappy, and Frank, and to you Cass. I'm so sorry you're all going through this.
erikaj - Sep 24, 2012 7:49:21 am PDT #20645 of 30001
"already on the kiss-cam with Karl Marx"-
I'm so sorry.
DavidS - Sep 24, 2012 7:55:45 am PDT #20646 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
Yeah, my thoughts are with you all dealing with your mortal parents.
Wishing strength to Scrappy, Cass and Frank and peace and acceptance.
Cass - Sep 24, 2012 8:51:32 am PDT #20647 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
Frank, I think being at peace is the best we can ask for knowing we're at the end of our lives. And am so glad that she's lucid so you can say your goodbyes and anything else. I hope she remains comfortable.
People playing "telephone" just led to me having to call my Stepmom to soothe both of our hurt feelings. The game where someone overheard a snip of a conversation I was part of and repeated it with or without realizing how it'd sound and without any context. So she was hurt. She texted me and I was hurt. After one more text not helping, I just called her and I think we sorted it out. I hope. Of course even false hurts don't miraculously go away when you figure out they were just a series of misunderstood things. Yay.