Loves Shir even more, and offers alibi, if needed.
Stop means no. And no means no. So . . . stop.
Xander ,'Conversations with Dead People'
Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
omnis_audis - Sep 03, 2012 6:06:02 am PDT #19692 of 30001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir
erin_obscure - Sep 03, 2012 7:04:38 am PDT #19693 of 30001
Occasionally I’m callous and strange
I don't even know if I like this guy yet, it's so wierd, we've only met once, I was totally "meh" and now I feel like i've somehow signed up to be his txt buddy. Makes me want to cut off communication entirely, but then I feel like a bad person being prejudiced against him for the baggage I know is there and never giving a change to actually get to know him. But I wasn't interested before...argh. I feel like a judgey selfish person for not being interested.
Hil, I'd totally wait also, especially if fever is down and you aren't having horrible pain. If the pain does get super bad you can get Azo otc, but it will totally fuck with any lab results, so not a good idea to take it before going to Dr and getting the pee test, otherwise they won't know what to treat.
DebetEsse - Sep 03, 2012 7:25:42 am PDT #19694 of 30001
Woe to the fucking wicked.
erin, you are not obligated to be attracted to anyone.
If you tell him you are feeling overwhelmed by the amount of attention he is asking of you, that should be understandable and relate-able enough for him to get the message. If he doesn't respond appropriately, then you are not obligated to continue the relationship, no matter how bad you feel about his situation. You are not a therapeutic implement.
Steph L. - Sep 03, 2012 7:28:39 am PDT #19695 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
I feel like a bad person being prejudiced against him for the baggage I know is there
You *aren't* prejudiced against him for his baggage; you're quite justifiably annoyed with him for texting you too much, and continuing to do so after you set a boundary. That's 2 vastly different things.
omnis_audis - Sep 03, 2012 7:30:21 am PDT #19696 of 30001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir
Erin, Trust your Spidey senses.
le nubian - Sep 03, 2012 7:40:10 am PDT #19697 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."
yes, it isn't a prejudice if he has been annoying you.
I think you should cut off all contact. you brought it up, you have been thinking about it and I endorse this line of action.
Aims - Sep 03, 2012 7:54:29 am PDT #19698 of 30001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
Hey Tep - insent.
Anne W. - Sep 03, 2012 7:57:08 am PDT #19699 of 30001
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.
Is anyone else getting a 404 error for Livejournal?
Never mind - seems to be resolved
Steph L. - Sep 03, 2012 8:07:09 am PDT #19700 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
Hey Tep - insent.
Back atcha.
sj - Sep 03, 2012 8:21:15 am PDT #19701 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
I just ordered this onesie for my friend's baby. My friend and her husband met in a science PhD program, so it seemed extra appropriate.