I like the ruffles.

Kaylee ,'Shindig'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

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Shir - Aug 24, 2012 4:43:07 am PDT #19340 of 30001
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Hi.

I didn't write/read here for a few days, so my brackets and ~mas to those who need it.

On Sunday night (my time) I got the terrible news that a dear friend from another board passed away. She was in her 30s, and it was very unexpected (no severe health problems). I mourned, and still am mourning the loss of her as a "real life" friend. She was very present in my everyday online life in the past years, and I still can't imagine or grasp that I won't talk with her again. The sense of missing for never come to the States to meet her F2F is depressing. I think I'm now over the initial shock, but the first three days were a hectic storm of shock and grief. We (her friends) are trying to fill the void she left behind, but it seems impossible.

She is greatly missed.


amyth - Aug 24, 2012 5:04:07 am PDT #19341 of 30001
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

Oh, Shir. I'm so sorry. How shocking and sad. Much ~ma to you in dealing with your grief.

Seven and a half hours until the weekend...SO CLOSE!


billytea - Aug 24, 2012 5:23:16 am PDT #19342 of 30001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

I'm very sorry, Shir.


Calli - Aug 24, 2012 5:42:03 am PDT #19343 of 30001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I'm so sorry, Shir.


erikaj - Aug 24, 2012 5:58:57 am PDT #19344 of 30001
"already on the kiss-cam with Karl Marx"-

I have some of the girls' hair problems, also a sensitive scalp that makes clips and whatnot super-annoying...My hair does better short. Shir, how heartbreaking!


erin_obscure - Aug 24, 2012 6:21:20 am PDT #19345 of 30001
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

Ugh, shir, that's so awful. So very sorry for all.


Aims - Aug 24, 2012 6:28:14 am PDT #19346 of 30001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Oh, shir - that is horrible. I am so very sorry.


Shir - Aug 24, 2012 6:33:29 am PDT #19347 of 30001
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Thanks. I'm keeping myself busy with all sorts of activities of commemoration, but there's a part of me that's still expecting her reply on some things, you know? Even in this, I'm kinnda waiting for her to come and help us to understand how to go through this. She was such an integral part of the community.


omnis_audis - Aug 24, 2012 6:35:03 am PDT #19348 of 30001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

{{{ Shir }}} So sorry to hear.


Zenkitty - Aug 24, 2012 6:36:41 am PDT #19349 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I'm so sorry, Shir.