smonster, once a guy with whom I was trying to have a torrid affair gave me a gift... a designer keychain. Just from his shyness and proud little flourish, I expected to open the box and find jewelry. Of course I told him I liked it, but it was ugly. I think your guy did better!
Get up...get up, you stupid piece of... What did you do that for? What's wrong with you? Didn't you hear a word he said? All of you! You think there's someone just going to drop money on you?! Money they could use?! Well, there ain't people like that. There's just people like me.
Jayne ,'Jaynestown'
Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Zenkitty - Sep 22, 2011 7:37:21 am PDT #17 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
Calli - Sep 22, 2011 7:39:38 am PDT #18 of 30001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs
That's great, amyth!
sj - Sep 22, 2011 7:40:22 am PDT #19 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
smonster, I have found that trying to interpret the thought process behind gifts only leads to driving yourself crazy.
amyth - Sep 22, 2011 7:46:56 am PDT #20 of 30001
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen
Calli, thanks! Also, I meant to say last night but I fell asleep: I'm glad to hear that there are positive things happening for you at work.
Calli - Sep 22, 2011 7:49:10 am PDT #21 of 30001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs
Thank you, amyth.
Toddson - Sep 22, 2011 7:52:07 am PDT #22 of 30001
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"
smonster, it sounds like he's trying to please you - nice dinner, something silver that's actually useful. So ... enjoy the dinner, the company, and use the wine stopper (you actually have wine left in the bottle? huh). I guess I'm saying enjoy the good and don't try to figure out what's going on in his mind.
Beverly - Sep 22, 2011 8:45:11 am PDT #23 of 30001
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.
What's going on in anyone else's mind is always a mystery and rarely what I expect it is. Todd's advice is sound.
sj, I would, if the assistant continues to be an ass-istant, call three days in a row: Hi, this is sj, logging the required second-day call to reach Dr. Wassname. Hi, this is sj, logging the required third-day call to reach Dr. Wassname. Having completed the hoop-jumping, I'll expect Dr. Wassname to get back to me today. Thank you for your assistance. Asshat.
But then I never claimed to be nice. Or logical. Or nice.
sj - Sep 22, 2011 8:48:24 am PDT #24 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Beverly, I have done all that, minus the asshat. I am going to call back in a couple minutes. I'm not waiting until tomorrow.
Beverly - Sep 22, 2011 8:54:28 am PDT #25 of 30001
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.
sj! I'm surprised, I thought you were nicer than that!
Seriously, strip the hide off her. Nobody should bodyguard a doctor from his or her patients that much.
smonster - Sep 22, 2011 8:56:18 am PDT #26 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
sj, keep pestering. That is urgent.
Yay, amyth! That's so awesome.
I know it wasn't mean to, but this made me laff a little.
Actually, it kind of was!
And those gifts mean commitment?
No. A wine stopper is something I would give as a hostess gift. It seems... a bit impersonal? Or it did, until I made sense of it.
Look, I don't hate it. It's pretty. It's useful. It has violent possibilities. I do love a fleur de lis.
I guess I'm saying enjoy the good and don't try to figure out what's going on in his mind.
I see the wisdom in this, and yet my personality is such that if I understand why he does a certain thing (like wait until the last minute to make plans, or cancel on me, or whatever) it reduces my stress and insecurity immensely. We have really, really different temperaments, so my logic is not his and vice versa about certain things.
Anyway. Enough of that. I do enjoy the good, for it is very, very good.