I'll just jump in my time machine, go back to the twelfth century, and ask the vampires to postpone their ancient prophesy for a few days while you take in dinner and a show.

Giles ,'Selfless'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


DavidS - May 27, 2012 10:27:17 am PDT #14067 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

i am not telling dan; he would just worry needlessly.

I think he'll be pissed if he comes home and finds you in a cast.


Atropa - May 27, 2012 10:30:33 am PDT #14068 of 30001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

I'm siding with Hec, here. Tell Dan. Tell him you're fine, but TELL HIM. (Speaking as someone who is trying to learn to tell her loved ones when something is wrong. Ahem.)


le nubian - May 27, 2012 10:36:42 am PDT #14069 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

"Cats purr during both inhalation and exhalation with a consistent pattern and frequency between 25 and 150 Hertz. Various investigators have shown that sound frequencies in this range can improve bone density and promote healing."

OMG this sounds like bullshit, but I loved it!

Vote 3: tell Dan.


Ginger - May 27, 2012 10:45:24 am PDT #14070 of 30001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

Oh, no, Erin. Don't do what I do. If it's any consolation, breaking the bone in my hand was my least painful major injury. Is it your good hand? Did they put a bulky bandage on it to immobilize it?

Have you called your health insurance? I say that because I had to pay additional money because the hand surgeon that was recommended charged more than "reasonable and customary."

I, like Jilli, am trying to learn to tell people when something is wrong. However, I might split the difference and tell him after you have the cast on, because then you'll have more information.


Connie Neil - May 27, 2012 10:55:25 am PDT #14071 of 30001
brillig

I think he'll be pissed if he comes home and finds you in a cast.

Spouses tend to notice these kinds of things.


Strix - May 27, 2012 11:01:28 am PDT #14072 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

well, i have vicodin now. and i was gonna tell him, but like, on wednesday; he'ss gonna be there till thursday and he'll just stress and there's nothing for him to do.


Strix - May 27, 2012 11:04:04 am PDT #14073 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

and i am gonna call insurance on tuesday, before orthopedist and call primary care doc, to get a rec.

it's a radial digital fracture on my left hand; my stupid hand, so that's good. with "cortal buckling?" i dunno.

yeah, i have a big ol' compression splint with velcro on it that urgent care put on.


Connie Neil - May 27, 2012 11:06:25 am PDT #14074 of 30001
brillig

Oh, not telling him before he gets home? Possibly more forgivable. He'll scold you, but he may be persuaded by the logic of "Well, there wasn't anything you could do, and you would have just worried."

edit: Though that didn't really work when Hubby had a heart attack. But that's a whole different level of "Eh, it's nothing."


Liese S. - May 27, 2012 11:08:00 am PDT #14075 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

If it were me on the other side, who is a perennial worrier, I would still be super pissed if I wasn't told.


Strix - May 27, 2012 11:10:26 am PDT #14076 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

yeah...i am torn. i mean...6 days with horrid ex AND worry?