Bunch of wanna blessed-bes. Nowadays every girl with a henna tattoo and a spice rack thinks she's a sister to the dark ones.

Willow ,'Bring On The Night'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Toddson - Oct 21, 2011 8:01:25 am PDT #1400 of 30001
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

Smack him with a rolled-up newspaper?


Glamcookie - Oct 21, 2011 8:30:29 am PDT #1401 of 30001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

I always feel guilty when the maternity leave/insurance/OccupyWallStreet type stuff comes up. I work for a big old corporation that has provided me with excellent benefits, a great salary, and flexible work schedule for almost 11 years now. So how can I complain about big business, even though I absolutely see how they play a big role in the inequities of our society? Is a dilemma.


Toddson - Oct 21, 2011 8:46:07 am PDT #1402 of 30001
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

Glam, I'd say accept that you work for an exception and if all big companies had the same policies we wouldn't be in as much of a mess as we are.

I've been debating whether to call the insurance company and find out how much - if anything - of my catarct surgery will be covered. Guess I should ... if they're not going to cover it, I think I'd have to cancel.


Laura - Oct 21, 2011 8:58:53 am PDT #1403 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

The 19 yo puppy boy continues to be a major challenge. Will not take direction.

How did you know?

Glam, as a business owner I had no problem bringing my babies to work with me and having them sitting on top of my desk in carrier. And my insurance was paid for by my business, which was also me. Thing is I also drove myself to said office and was working with the baby at my side when he was only 7 days old because time off ain't an option when it is your business.

I also have no issue when my employees need to bring the kids or grandkids to the office because of whatever issues, even their animals on occasion! It is a pretty relaxed office.


§ ita § - Oct 21, 2011 8:59:57 am PDT #1404 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Big business is too often problematic, despite everyone not working for a problem company. If it was always fucked, then we'd be just be worse off.

I'm so putting off checking up my insurance status with respect to deductibles, etcetera. I don't know why! It just feels more grown up than I can bear with being this week. Just way too much hospital, doctors, and health issues.


P.M. Marc - Oct 21, 2011 9:32:32 am PDT #1405 of 30001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Remind me to back away slowly from Facebook arguments with wrong-headed people.

PS, if attacked, I feel fairly certain that we (Canada-we) would get support from other members of the Commonweath. Who also have militaries! Go figure!


Pix - Oct 21, 2011 9:40:02 am PDT #1406 of 30001
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

Plei, that person is just impossible. Omnis is such a tolerant, open-minded person that he doesn’t filter any of his political posts and welcomes the debate that ensues with some of his very politically conservative friends. The person who is driving you crazy right now--unlike some of the other people who I disagree with, but respect--is neither logical nor very good at listening. He is a troll. Just walk away. That’s what I had to do.


brenda m - Oct 21, 2011 9:42:17 am PDT #1407 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I always feel guilty when the maternity leave/insurance/OccupyWallStreet type stuff comes up. I work for a big old corporation that has provided me with excellent benefits, a great salary, and flexible work schedule for almost 11 years now. So how can I complain about big business, even though I absolutely see how they play a big role in the inequities of our society?

Because of that! Those things affect you too, and people you care about.

It kills me how we have this instinct to feel guilty when we're treated decently, instead of just outraged that it's not the norm. (Or the uglier side of that coin, that we/someone should feel grateful and not make waves.) Ugh. I haven't figured out a way to excise those reactions from my psyche.

PS, if attacked, I feel fairly certain that we (Canada-we) would get support from other members of the Commonweath. Who also have militaries! Go figure!

Oh god, still?


P.M. Marc - Oct 21, 2011 9:50:46 am PDT #1408 of 30001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Yeah, I sent my one last link to CIHI's most recent study (and DIDN'T point out that, in addition to having a LOT of family up there, I also have a lot of family and friends of the family who are MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS, as is my mother, and therefore, the level of discussion and knowledge in my sample set is occasionally pretty damn good) and am calling it a day.

It's not perfect, but it's also not a disaster.


§ ita § - Oct 21, 2011 9:53:40 am PDT #1409 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Man, if this were silver-toned, I'd be so tempted...