Could just be a hoax, though. I fake some headaches, everyone gets used to poor helpless Spike. Then one day, no warning, I snap a spine, bend a head back, drain 'em dry. Brilliant.

Spike ,'Potential'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Connie Neil - May 10, 2012 2:10:51 pm PDT #13004 of 30001
brillig

It's not shallow, it's organizing your wardrobe in the 21st Century.


Atropa - May 10, 2012 2:17:34 pm PDT #13005 of 30001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Is the question whether it's shallow to not want to repeat outfits, or merely the method?

Um, both, I think.

It's not shallow, it's organizing your wardrobe in the 21st Century.

Ha! Okay, I guess there's that.


brenda m - May 10, 2012 3:19:41 pm PDT #13006 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Is the question whether it's shallow to not want to repeat outfits, or merely the method? I don't think it's shallow to not want to repeat outfits - I make an effort not to, and my outfits are substantially less likely to stick in others' brains than yours are. I have no opinion on the method - whatever works for you, I think.

A guy I work with was bitching at me yesterday that he came in for a meeting on his work from home day that was subsequently cancelled, and now he had to take the shirt he was wearing out of the rotation.


Calli - May 10, 2012 3:28:23 pm PDT #13007 of 30001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

So I'm thinking about taking the GRE

As a prelude to grad school? If so, in what area?


Zenkitty - May 10, 2012 4:20:20 pm PDT #13008 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I agree with brenda that parasailing is a calm happy thing. But pricey.

Foundation settling into pores needs primer! I am a total convert to makeup primer.


Atropa - May 10, 2012 4:21:21 pm PDT #13009 of 30001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

But I use primer! It's just failing meeee!


Zenkitty - May 10, 2012 4:30:40 pm PDT #13010 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Which primer? I use the Monistat not-really-primer stuff.


Strix - May 10, 2012 4:48:07 pm PDT #13011 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Whiich primer do you use, Jilli?

I swear by Smashbox, but I use the regular one. I think they have an oil-free one. And Origins used to make a great mattifying product...lemme see, do they still make it?

Yes, it's called Zero Oil and it's $13.50: [link]


Atropa - May 10, 2012 6:19:51 pm PDT #13012 of 30001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

I use either the MAC Prep & Prime (which has the bonus of being SPF 50), or Make Up Forever's primer. Smashbox doesn't work for me.

What pisses me off is I at one point had the perfect combination of sunblock and primer. But I think the abx are making my skin freak out and exacerbating my random primer issues.


Steph L. - May 10, 2012 6:26:13 pm PDT #13013 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Man, I just had an amazing conversation with my bro. We've never actually had a substantial conversation, really, about how much our childhoods fucked us up. But he called me tonight, having a meltdown because his job is sucking and his wife is out of town for work yet again (being a coffee buyer means you spend a lot of time in the countries where it's grown) and he can't sleep and his friends keep dying.

Which is a lot of shit to deal with. And I just listened sympathetically and occasionally offered up an opinion...and then somehow he segued into how fucked up he is, and how if he and his wife are going to have kids (!) (really, !!!, but also YAY!), he needs to really sort his shit out first. And I told him that if I could do it, he can do it. And then we just talked about our own brand of fucked-upped-ness for about an hour, and at the end, he said, "I really needed to have this conversation. You actually share my crazy."

"Yeah," I said. "And you can deal with your crazy. It won't go away, but it also won't win. Most days. And really, 'most days' is a pretty good deal."

Seriously, it was kind of an amazing conversation. I hope it helped him.