Lots of ~ma, Ginger
'Serenity'
Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Random jury pool notes. Why when I sit with spaces on both sides do people sit right next to me, twice now. There are several hundred seats. Plenty not next to people. I am clearly busy on my iPad here. Also, why does the restroom not have a hook or shelf for my purse?
Ok, assigned to a judge but not called up yet. Too noisy to read my book so kinda bored.
Ginger lots of quick and easy test~ma headed your way.
Tons of ~ma for you Ginger!!
LeN, hope the interviews are going well!!!
All the ~ma I got for you, Ginger.
~ma for Ginger and for le nubian.
Aims, I got the book "It's Perfectly Normal" by Harris and Emberley for M; he was 9 last year and had NO interest in it. Threw it under the bed like it had cooties.
I told him that was ok; he could read it this year or not, but that it would stay in his room.
It's a great book, and has illustrations as well as words. It shows all types of body types, talks about masturbation, homo, hetero and bisexuality and has gentle humor.
But he'll be 10 this summer, and we will have The Talk.
Gentlemen Buffistas, don't feel compelled to answer if it makes you uncomfortable, but do you recall at what age you started masturbating/thinking about girls/guys? M's dad will be present for The Talk, but I'm a lot more comfortable with it than he, and figure I will do the big portion of the Talk, and then M can come to dad with any questions he might have that he doesn't want to ask me.
I HOPE he feels ok asking me, but I'm pragmatic about the likelihood.
-ma to Ginger and Le Nubian!
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ION, D and I have been married 2 years today!
Gentlemen Buffistas, don't feel compelled to answer if it makes you uncomfortable, but do you recall at what age you started masturbating/thinking about girls/guys?
I tried masturbating after I read about it (so age 9), but didn't really pursue it as a regular activity until I was about 12. (For boys it feels a lot better after you produce seminal fluid.)
Cool. M takes after his dad a lot so I'll have to ask him what age he started. I think M will start puberty around 11 or 12, but I think 10 is the right age for Talk #1.
I will DEF being giving Talk #2 about 13, along with the dreaded cucumber demonstration. And pictures of STD's. 10 is too young for that...and I don't want to make sex scary, just make sure he knows that there can be consquences if he and a partner don't protect themselves. Yanno, when he's 19!
Gentlemen Buffistas, don't feel compelled to answer if it makes you uncomfortable, but do you recall at what age you started masturbating/thinking about girls/guys?
About 12/13. My parents barely acknowledged the existence of sex. So I had to use alternative means of finding things out. (Luckily, it was the '70s, and a curious youth could learn a lot just from bestselling fiction at the local library. I think I've said before that I learned a lot by reading The Godfather. And The People's Almanac was practically a sex ed course by itself.)