they all seem to have a hidden brick wall that I run into.
Imago theory suggests that it's your brick wall, dressed up differently. It would be interesting to see what sorts of themes keep popping up and why they are familiar to you. That way, you can identify that 'need/expectation' that brick wall signals and get it met in a different way.
When push comes to shove, many of my clients are more invested in the safety of 'difference' than in the exploration of similarities when relationships are difficult, but it is that inquiry that can breed the most positive change.
Honestly, when a couple laments, "We are just different people!" I want to do the 'baroo?' head tilt. As opposed to what?! Of COURSE you are different, and thank god for it. Why would you want to be the same? (the fantasy says 'same = comfortable'...the reality, nsm)
A group of burly gentlemen are raising an enormous tent just across the street from me.
The calls of "One, Two, Three!" with pauses for herculean tugs is making it seem as if the circus has come to town.
"You can be used, at will, by figures of authority."
damn. bonny had to get deep in here.
and they all seem to have a hidden brick wall that I run into. Repeatedly.
Ah, yes, my "type" used to be emotionally unavailable!
Wow, I'm getting so many compliments today!! Both on my hair and (I think due to the fact that it's actually warm enough for me to wear one of my new summer shirts that actually fit me and don't bag on my torso) on my weight loss. My neighbor who works in the cafeteria loves the hair, and then he asked me how much I've lost. Both he and the grill guy, who was standing next to him, said I'm lookin' good!
Have we heard from Kate P., with the flooding? I know she and her DH may be traveling.
damn. bonny had to get deep in here.
Me and Gandolf, callin' a thing by its true name.
Both he and the grill guy, who was standing next to him, said I'm lookin' good!
Nice one! Especially if you are feeling good too.
Have we heard from Kate P., with the flooding?
I thought they were in Nashville (i.e., a couple hundred miles away) -- am I remembering wrong?
They were driving to Oklahoma City last week, because her DH's grandmother was sick, but I'm not sure if they're back yet. He was supposed to go to Ireland this weekend, but it may have been postponed.
