I'm not okay with anyone being assholes without provocation. Why bother? I am all for a default of detached near-pleasantness.
This.
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I'm not okay with anyone being assholes without provocation. Why bother? I am all for a default of detached near-pleasantness.
This.
But suppose someone asks you about homosociality tomorrow? You'll be all "nipple-sucking-SOMETHING" and then you won't know any more.
I'm not okay with anyone being assholes without provocation. Why bother? I am all for a default of detached near-pleasantness.
Yeah, this.
I've never had problems crossing the border with my mother, but with people my own age, yeah, they've been tools.
You'll be all "nipple-sucking-SOMETHING" and then you won't know any more.
I think I'm willing to live with this risk.
I'm not okay with anyone being assholes without provocation. Why bother? I am all for a default of detached near-pleasantness
Yes. Yes, this, very much.
I've never had problems crossing any borders, but that may be because my appearance confuses them.
But suppose someone asks you about homosociality tomorrow? You'll be all "nipple-sucking-SOMETHING" and then you won't know any more.
I'd just point behind them and say, "Look! Hookers and blow!" and then run away.
I've never had problems crossing any borders, but that may be because my appearance confuses them.
Have they ever suspected you of smuggling contraband in your petticoats?
My general impression regarding the USA/Canada border has been that the Canadian border guards are all "Welcome to our country! Have a pleasant visit!" while the American ones are more "Who the fuck are you and why should we let you in?!?"
This was not at all my experience, as I spent over an hour after my last flight to Toronto trying to explain to immigration that, no, I was not moving to Canada.
Same here. And the fact that I was coming for my boyfriend's sister's funeral only fanned their suspicions. Jackasses.
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Timelies all!
Haven't really had any hassles with Canada/ US border crossings. The last couple of Canadian trips have been by car, if that makes any difference. (Crossing into Canada on our most recent trip we had a mostly standard exchange: Where are you from, where are you going, how long will you be there? When Gary answered "a small SF convention" to the question of why we were going the guard asked how we'd heard about this convention. Gary replied "I've been attending it for the last 16 years")