Stop means no. And no means no. So . . . stop.

Xander ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Natter 68: Bork Bork Bork  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Cashmere - Aug 30, 2011 2:41:00 pm PDT #23114 of 30001
Now tagless for your comfort.

Thanks, Hil! That's awesome! She is very interested in Judaism because her BFF is Jewish and I want her to have good info.


Kat - Aug 30, 2011 2:41:08 pm PDT #23115 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

ARGH. My head is explodey and I blame bureaucracy and Grace.

EVERYTHING to do with Grace works 2/3rds of the way. Like I need her to have a swallow study, so it gets approved, but they won't do it without OT which won't be approved. Or, she gets approved to receive government diapers, but we can't get them because Anthem won't write me a letter saying they won't cover them so Medi-Cal has to and the fucking DME provider will NOT just bill my insurance and get a denial. Or, she gets her placement at a new school and it's mornings which is the only way it will work for Grace, but they just today submitted a transportation request so she won't have transportation at all the first week of her school (and mine).

I am fucking tired of dealing with the hoops to get the other third to fall in line.


Kat - Aug 30, 2011 2:42:28 pm PDT #23116 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Allyson, I think LA is just a particularly grim place to date.


aurelia - Aug 30, 2011 2:42:41 pm PDT #23117 of 30001
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

Of course, I should probably leave the house more often and meet people.

This is the same problem I have.


Cashmere - Aug 30, 2011 2:43:45 pm PDT #23118 of 30001
Now tagless for your comfort.

Local fantasy author, Patrick Rothfuss' Facebook status: "Last night I had a dream that I met Joss Whedon. We hung out and chatted. Apparently, he drives a Prius."

I believe he is one of us.


Jesse - Aug 30, 2011 2:43:54 pm PDT #23119 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I just tweeted that the WiFi at the bar I'm at sucks, and they tweeted me back that they're working on it, while I'm still here! I am simultaneously appreciative of the customer service, and feeling exposed, though the place is packed. CAN THEY SEE ME?

Creepy!


Hil R. - Aug 30, 2011 2:44:02 pm PDT #23120 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Thanks, Hil! That's awesome! She is very interested in Judaism because her BFF is Jewish and I want her to have good info.

JewFAQ is generally a good site for info on Judaism -- I usually recommend it to people who want to know stuff, because it's got information on nearly everything, and googling for info on Judaism is usually not the best idea. It's written from an Orthodox perspective, but where other types of Judaism differ significantly, he'll usually note it.


Hil R. - Aug 30, 2011 2:50:16 pm PDT #23121 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Actually, now that I look at that site a bit more, he doesn't really note differences between Orthodox and others as much as I'd like. The section on women's roles, especially. But the history parts are good.


Allyson - Aug 30, 2011 2:50:24 pm PDT #23122 of 30001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

Nope. I found my wife the old fashioned way: going to a Buffy season finale party.

DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA HOW MANY BUFFY PARTIES I HAVE BEEN TO?

Yeah, Kat. It is totally grim. But I'm fairly cute and awesome, so I have that on my side.


amyth - Aug 30, 2011 2:51:11 pm PDT #23123 of 30001
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

Kat, that is so frustrating, I can't even imagine. Talk about Hulk Smash.

Why can't things just work?

P-C, I think Hec is right. Organize your own Nerd Speed Dating. Why not? Plus, if you're like me, organizing things is half the fun.