On my seventh birthday, I wanted a toy fire truck, and I didn't get it, and you were real nice about it, and then the house next door burnt down, and then real firetrucks came, and for years I thought you set the fire for me. And if you did, you can tell me!

Xander ,'Same Time, Same Place'


Natter 68: Bork Bork Bork  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Amy - Aug 30, 2011 12:38:17 pm PDT #23065 of 30001
Because books.

I probably wouldn't mention it then, but what do I know? I married I guy I met was seventeen. If he croaks, I'm toast.


§ ita § - Aug 30, 2011 12:43:10 pm PDT #23066 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Why is wanting a husband and kids at 38 any worse than wanting them at 25?


Allyson - Aug 30, 2011 12:46:40 pm PDT #23067 of 30001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

I wouldn't feel safe giving birth to a kid at 38, but I'd probably make a reasonably unEvil Stepmother.


Allyson - Aug 30, 2011 12:47:12 pm PDT #23068 of 30001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

ita should totally take some new OKC pics for me, is what I think.


Cashmere - Aug 30, 2011 12:59:39 pm PDT #23069 of 30001
Now tagless for your comfort.

Allyson, my twin sister had a divorce and another bad ending to a five year relationship before meeting her awesome husband four years ago and finally getting pregnant. Crazier things have happened!


§ ita § - Aug 30, 2011 1:00:46 pm PDT #23070 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I am totally down with that.

I have a childhood friend in SF who is promising me cuties if I come up and visit him. SF--so many reasons to go, and yet I never seem to.


Kate P. - Aug 30, 2011 1:01:07 pm PDT #23071 of 30001
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

I wouldn't feel safe giving birth to a kid at 38, but I'd probably make a reasonably unEvil Stepmother.

Or adoptive mother? I mean, you've still got plenty of good options!


Sheryl - Aug 30, 2011 1:01:41 pm PDT #23072 of 30001
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

I don't really have a "bucket list", though there are some things I'd like to do.


Cashmere - Aug 30, 2011 1:01:56 pm PDT #23073 of 30001
Now tagless for your comfort.

Crap. Olivia just came in and asked me if I could "tell her the story of Jewish people--the WHOLE thing" tonight at bedtime.

I knew being an atheist was going to bite me in the ass someday.


erikaj - Aug 30, 2011 1:04:43 pm PDT #23074 of 30001
Always Anti-fascist!

Allyson, I've been there. Actually, I still am. I think making a list would just make me sad, though. Because, hey, I (almost) died twice.