Buffy: He ran away, right? Giles: Sort of, more. turned and swept out majestically, I suppose. Said I didn't concern him. Buffy: So a mythic triumph over a completely indifferent foe? Giles: Well, I'm not dead or unconscious, so I say bravo for me.

'Same Time, Same Place'


Natter 68: Bork Bork Bork  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


P.M. Marc - Jun 07, 2011 11:43:32 am PDT #11822 of 30001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Yeah, the security theater aspect is what struck me. Most pedophiles are not strangers on the street (or the playgrounds), they're people within the social networks of the children they abuse. Refusing adults unaccompanied by children access to playgrounds doesn't actually do much (if anything) to protect those children, who presumably are already accompanied by an adult anyway.

Totally.

I don't think I ever thought he was going to pick up a kid and run. But when he entered the play area, I definitely watched him for a few moments. Intellectually, I think civil liberties are very valuable but the parent in me was thinking "seriously, dude, you have the entire park to do your thing in. This is a kid area."

The parent in me wouldn't have been bothered. My aunt metal detects. Young adults and kids in their late teens often go to playgrounds (or did, before the paranoia police state) and lose change on the swings. It's prime turf for fun finds.


Fred Pete - Jun 07, 2011 11:56:05 am PDT #11823 of 30001
Ann, that's a ferret.

Intellectually, I think civil liberties are very valuable but the parent in me was thinking "seriously, dude, you have the entire park to do your thing in. This is a kid area."

I've developed what I call the "acknowledge" body language in response to people/situations where I feel suspected by strangers for some reason or other. I'll glance over, just enough to convey, "Okay, I know you're there, so I won't run into you. Other than that, I'm ignoring you."


Ginger - Jun 07, 2011 11:59:10 am PDT #11824 of 30001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

I used to look for change in the area by my elementary school where parents let kids off. Quite a bit of change intended for lunch money and the like ended up in the gravel.

I had an archaeology professor who was a classical archaeologist specializing in coins. His years of practice meant he picked up $200 to $300 in change a year on campus.


Stephanie - Jun 07, 2011 12:02:26 pm PDT #11825 of 30001
Trust my rage

I should add, it wasn't the metal detecting that was weird. But the guy just sort of charged in to the play area, under the equipment, sort of displacing kids as he went b

To me, that story is an example of how I "know" something is likely fine, but I still "felt" I intruded upon.


P.M. Marc - Jun 07, 2011 12:03:54 pm PDT #11826 of 30001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Yeah, in that case, he's being a rudesby and requires a Glower of Doom and a pointed, "EXCUSE ME???"

Makes me wonder if he'd lost something, but STILL. An explanation would be good.


sumi - Jun 07, 2011 12:31:39 pm PDT #11827 of 30001
Art Crawl!!!

Horseracing pitutures from the NYT archives.

(I didn't know that once there was steeplechasing at Aqueduct - is there still?)

Horsetalkhas an entire page of links to stories about cloned horses.


-t - Jun 07, 2011 12:32:39 pm PDT #11828 of 30001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I kind of like that there are places where adults must be accompanied by a child just because there are so many places where children must be accompanied by an adult.


§ ita § - Jun 07, 2011 1:54:23 pm PDT #11829 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Ugh. I've hit a wall getting meds again. This is so frustrating.


flea - Jun 07, 2011 2:13:58 pm PDT #11830 of 30001
information libertarian

There are some public library kids' sections that don't allow adults without children. In our town's library, I can't see why anyone would want to - it's all tiny furniture and the computers are restricted to only some educational games - but the article I read about it showed a really beautiful children's area and adults wanted to sit and read there.

I did a 10-day tour of Turkey with a group of archaeologists and my friend Deb found coins on 2 different sites (nothing special, just bronze Byzantine stuff, but still! She had the eye.) But in some areas metal detectorists are pretty hazardous for archaeological sites.


Sophia Brooks - Jun 07, 2011 2:18:17 pm PDT #11831 of 30001
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

But, what if I wanted a children's book?