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Giles ,'Selfless'
Natter 68: Bork Bork Bork
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
I always complimented women that I was courting, but always used it as a way to say, "I now what you value." Usually personal style, though with ita I would've said, "You have a thoroughly geeky and well considered collection of blades."
Sexytimes: Wow, y'all are parsing it rather fine. Whatever happened to Sifu Jesse's wise words, "Different people like different shit"?
Wow, we all just like to talk a lot. About everything. Please to not marginalize someone's -- and I mean *my* -- sexuality by dismissing it as "parsing it rather fine" and "different people like different shit."
We talk. A lot. About things on which people differ. If we summed everything up as "different people like different shit," we wouldn't need this message board.
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All my successful, uh, interludes have commenced with either a backhanded compliment/foot-in-mouth or fairly obnoxious aggressive bantering. Which is to say I have a type. And since I don't find that particularly healthy for me long term (short term is fine. Any more than that, exhausting,) I only give into it where I extricate effortlessly and there's a built in expiration date. And I am not looking for anything more.
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This conversation about sexuality is fascinating to me. Please keep being talky-meat.
Aaaand my geriatric cat just farted in my face as the kitten barfed up the grass he ate earlier.
I don't want a partner, romantic or otherwise. I want elves. Cat-cleanup elves. And maybe handyman elves.
Wow, we all just like to talk a lot. About everything. Please to not marginalize someone's -- and I mean *my* -- sexuality by dismissing it as "parsing it rather fine" and "different people like different shit."
Wow, what? I'm not marginalizing or dismissing anything. You can be any flavor of the rainbow you please as you define it. I'm not putting you in a box or defining it or denying it. All I said was that as the gradations of taxonomy become so distinct as to define your own personal space it is no different than saying, "You like what you like." The DSM does not go down that far because ultimately individuals prefer things which define them as individuals. Or, you know, what Jesse said.
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