Damn it! You know what? I'm sick of this crap. I'm sick of being the guy who eats insects and gets the funny syphilis. As of this moment, it's over. I'm finished being everybody's butt monkey!

Xander ,'Lessons'


Natter 68: Bork Bork Bork  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Jun 01, 2011 4:43:15 pm PDT #10760 of 30001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Congrats, Gud!


billytea - Jun 01, 2011 4:43:37 pm PDT #10761 of 30001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Congratulations, Gud!


§ ita § - Jun 01, 2011 4:43:55 pm PDT #10762 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Congrats, Gud! That's a tight turnaround!

I often compliment women on their smarts. Or if a woman wore something sexy to please me, I'll tell her how great it looks on her.

Nope, not really usually even on my smarts. I mean, you can think I'm smart, and let that be known through deed and word, but saying, "ita, you're an intelligent woman and I'm enjoying these deep discussions with you..." and I'll get all retchy retchy. And if a guy thought I dressed to please him, he better not let me know he's thinking that. I dressed to please me. I let him see me. Even though it's a date, that's the air I'm walking in with.

You see the problem?


Kat - Jun 01, 2011 4:46:11 pm PDT #10763 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Congrats, Gud!!


smonster - Jun 01, 2011 4:49:53 pm PDT #10764 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Yay, Gud!

Finding the discussion fascinating, and as usual, grateful we can talk about these sorts of things here.


tommyrot - Jun 01, 2011 4:50:08 pm PDT #10765 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

"ita, you're an intelligent woman and I'm enjoying these deep discussions with you..."

Yeah, it would sound weird to say that. If I compliment a woman on her smarts it'd be in reference to some specific thing she said or did.


DavidS - Jun 01, 2011 4:54:44 pm PDT #10766 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Good job, Gud! I hope it's the place that was convenient and interesting.

Consuela: gift cert for LL Beane?

Sexytimes: Wow, y'all are parsing it rather fine. Whatever happened to Sifu Jesse's wise words, "Different people like different shit"?


Polter-Cow - Jun 01, 2011 4:55:03 pm PDT #10767 of 30001
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

Congrats, Gud!


DavidS - Jun 01, 2011 4:57:58 pm PDT #10768 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I always complimented women that I was courting, but always used it as a way to say, "I now what you value." Usually personal style, though with ita I would've said, "You have a thoroughly geeky and well considered collection of blades."


Steph L. - Jun 01, 2011 4:59:14 pm PDT #10769 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Sexytimes: Wow, y'all are parsing it rather fine. Whatever happened to Sifu Jesse's wise words, "Different people like different shit"?

Wow, we all just like to talk a lot. About everything. Please to not marginalize someone's -- and I mean *my* -- sexuality by dismissing it as "parsing it rather fine" and "different people like different shit."

We talk. A lot. About things on which people differ. If we summed everything up as "different people like different shit," we wouldn't need this message board.