No power in the 'verse can stop me.

River ,'War Stories'


Natter 67: Overriding Vetoes  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, nail polish, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


quester - Mar 23, 2011 8:47:24 am PDT #29787 of 30001
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

Thank you, quester

You're welcome, Zen! Your tale reminded me of the time the house next door was being sand blasted for about 3 days straight!

Happy Birthday, Raq!

You are not a jerk, Allyson.


le nubian - Mar 23, 2011 8:50:48 am PDT #29788 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

Allyson,

what kind of online publication is that? Is it a religious publication? I'd feel better if there were reporting in say, a newspaper.


brenda m - Mar 23, 2011 8:53:51 am PDT #29789 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

It's a fairly well known (note I don't say well respected) far right site. They're generally well into crackpot territory.


Gudanov - Mar 23, 2011 8:54:21 am PDT #29790 of 30001
Coding and Sleeping

I'm being a jerk.

Nah, not at all. Just skimming over it, it seems totally suspicious. That's one of the things I like about you, you step back from things that sound outrageous to uncover they aren't as cut and dried as it sounds.

It's something I've had to learn about picking up stories that sound outrageous in a way that supports my worldview. There's often an argument on the other side that is at least somewhat reasonable, not all the time, but often.


Allyson - Mar 23, 2011 8:55:07 am PDT #29791 of 30001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

It's important to note that only crackpotty sites are reporting on this. I couldn't find anything in a paper.


Gudanov - Mar 23, 2011 8:59:14 am PDT #29792 of 30001
Coding and Sleeping

In general, I feel bad for family services type people. It seems like they are always the bad guys in the media no matter what they do, either taking kids from their loving parents, or not intervening soon enough.


Allyson - Mar 23, 2011 9:01:04 am PDT #29793 of 30001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

It's something I've had to learn about picking up stories that sound outrageous in a way that supports my worldview.

I've been spending a lot of time writing about this for the new book. Managing my confirmation bias. ita does a really good job of that. Strega does as well. I'm having a difficult time with it. Taking a deep breath and stepping back and saying, "I need more facts."


Allyson - Mar 23, 2011 9:06:15 am PDT #29794 of 30001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

You know, and this happened recently when a friend posted a story to her FB about a woman in Florida who was taken against her will and basically committed to a hospital because she told her doctor that she couldn't go on bed rest during a high risk pregnancy. She was single, and the sole supporter of two other children.

She miscarried two days later while being held in the hospital.

And I felt this huge outrage...but then I went to my handy dandy google, and found that the ACLU took her case, and the judges found for her, and stated that they clearly wanted to set precedent so that this never happened to another woman. The judges said that. And I was like, "DUDE. THAT WAS THE IMPORTANT PART OF THE STORY."

Not, "woe, the plight of women in america," it was, "woman in america triumphs."

Why you trying to Rage Fatigue me? WHY? There's enough shit to be angry about.


le nubian - Mar 23, 2011 9:10:30 am PDT #29795 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

brenda,

I have never read that site in my life. I am not quite sure how I've avoided the crackpots, but I have. You'd think I just signed on to the Internet last night.


Jesse - Mar 23, 2011 9:10:46 am PDT #29796 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

In general, I feel bad for family services type people. It seems like they are always the bad guys in the media no matter what they do, either taking kids from their loving parents, or not intervening soon enough.

Yeah, absolutely. Because you only hear about exceptional stories, and/or ones where someone raises a stink.

Sort of relatedly, last weekend's This American Life had a story from a guy who went to go rescue some kids from their meth head parents, and what actually happened. It was interesting.