I don't think you owe her a goodbye. And if you just let the relationship trail off maybe in a couple years you can reconnect and it will be better.
That's disturbing. You're emotionally scarred and will end up badly.
Anya ,'Bring On The Night'
Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Laga - Nov 17, 2010 11:42:02 am PST #8772 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
beekaytee - Nov 17, 2010 11:43:11 am PST #8773 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant
I'll always love him. The idea of him being alone and miserable is too awful.
Aw, Hon...I'm sorry. It's good of you to care so much and, once again, I hope his choices aren't based in misery. In my experience, alone doesn't have to be miserable.
In any case, I hope there is another explanation that is less painful for you.
Barb - Nov 17, 2010 11:45:42 am PST #8774 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”
Has anyone wished our beauteous Jilli a happy birthday in Bitches today??
beekaytee - Nov 17, 2010 11:48:23 am PST #8775 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant
Oh my STARS and garters! Happy BatBirthday, Jilli!
tommyrot - Nov 17, 2010 11:48:38 am PST #8776 of 30000
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.
Birthday Happies Jilli!!!
Laga - Nov 17, 2010 11:48:56 am PST #8777 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
Hippo Birdies, Jilli!
Scrappy - Nov 17, 2010 11:52:27 am PST #8778 of 30000
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
Happy bat and chocolate-filled birthday to the splindiferous Jilli!
hippocampus - Nov 17, 2010 12:02:06 pm PST #8779 of 30000
not your mom's socks.
Happy Birthday Jilli!
Laga - Nov 17, 2010 12:15:59 pm PST #8780 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
We are being vewy vewy quiet because the baby is a light sleeper.
sj - Nov 17, 2010 12:17:09 pm PST #8781 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Happy Birthday, Jilli!!!