Giles: I jump out of the circle, jump back in, and, and, shake my gourd. Buffy: Hey, I think I know this ritual. The ancient shamans were next called upon to do the Hokey-Pokey and to turn themselves around.

'Dirty Girls'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Barb - Nov 16, 2010 2:00:33 pm PST #8658 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

Barb - does it ever help to go for a walk and listen to something (like a book on tape that is not at all reminiscent of your work, or she who shall not be named) to distract the brain?

Not really. The thing that's tended to help the most is yoga, but even that's been off the table for a few weeks, since I had to carry the 80lb dog down the stairs and lift him up into my car to take him to the vet. I did heinous things to my back and shoulder.

I'm just, I dunno... kind of twitchy and anxious. More sleep would probably help.


erin_obscure - Nov 16, 2010 2:38:43 pm PST #8659 of 30000
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

sleep is good. i hear wine can help with that for some people ;P


Volans - Nov 16, 2010 4:05:33 pm PST #8660 of 30000
move out and draw fire

I am totally opposed to the scanners for a whole lot of reasons, but I don't really care if they photo me (or grope me, both have happened before). I wasn't about to let them photograph Mal, however.

Now that they're saying kids under 12 don't get a pat-down, my plans for YouTube greatness when Mal went Tasmanian Devil on the TSO are kaput.

I actually had a fight about these scanners today at work, with my newest Problem Child. Not only is he convinced he's the smartest person in the room, he won't shut up about it. And he's not. Pretty far from, in fact (he informed us all yesterday that if we knew our history, we'd realize that Pompeii was destroyed in a volcanic eruption).

Following our "agree to disagree" about the utility of backscatter scanners and TSA in general, he IMed me...at which point I discovered that he's set his customization so that all his chats come thru in Papyrus font.

No jury of my peers in the world...


hippocampus - Nov 16, 2010 4:08:45 pm PST #8661 of 30000
not your mom's socks.

why would you need a jury? You were at my house all week.

The Inquirer published a pretty horrific article today about a Doctor who has written a memoir of being overweight, and how the medical profession treated him. I remember discussions here about doctors running the gamut from insensitive to downright evil on the topic of weight - this article bears that out. If people want to see it, I'll post the link.


brenda m - Nov 16, 2010 4:15:04 pm PST #8662 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I think the answer to that question is always yes.


Cass - Nov 16, 2010 4:15:20 pm PST #8663 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

(he informed us all yesterday that if we knew our history, we'd realize that Pompeii was destroyed in a volcanic eruption)

Dude. Really? A volcano?

Yeah, a jury of your peers would canonize you, not convict you.


§ ita § - Nov 16, 2010 4:17:05 pm PST #8664 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

What did he think you thought about Pompeii?


amych - Nov 16, 2010 4:29:29 pm PST #8665 of 30000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

Hon, YOUR peers? The papyrus thing alone. But Pompeii is good for snickering over drinks after the trial is done.


Volans - Nov 16, 2010 4:33:52 pm PST #8666 of 30000
move out and draw fire

What did he think you thought about Pompeii?

We'd mentioned that the Google StreetView of Pompeii was a nice way to augment history lessons for kids who were studying Pompeii.

He said "If you know anything about history, you'd know that you should be wary of showing that to kids."

It took us a bit to parse what he meant. I said "I don't think most of the penis graffiti is visible anymore..." so he patiently explained the whole volcano thing.

After a moment of stunned silence one of my team said, "Dude, "killed by volcano" is second only to "eaten by dinosaurs" in getting kids to engage with history."


sj - Nov 16, 2010 4:41:53 pm PST #8667 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

After a moment of stunned silence one of my team said, "Dude, "killed by volcano" is second only to "eaten by dinosaurs" in getting kids to engage with history."

He obviously knows nothing about kids. But it does remind me of the tour guide at the Edward Gorey museum having to explain to one of the other tourists that no, most kids are not traumatized by The Gashlycrumb Tinies.