You're not friends. You'll never be friends. You'll be in love till it kills you both.

Spike ,'Sleeper'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Steph L. - Nov 03, 2010 8:45:36 am PDT #7387 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Steph, it occurs to me that you could probably make a pretty damn delicious gluten-free waffle batter.

Oh, totally. I have a really good mix, actually. But I'm at work and went out to lunch, and unfortunately, no place around here makes a gluten-free waffle.


Spidra Webster - Nov 03, 2010 8:51:25 am PDT #7388 of 30000
I wish I could just go somewhere to get flensed but none of the whaling ships near me take Medicare.

Had to hold back from commenting on a post that made light of people who are upset at the election results (esp the likely coming gridlock in Congress). The guy has a 6 figure salary and has thus likely been pretty insulated from the worst of this economic downturn. I really hate how people in that bubble act like if it's not bad for them, it's not bad for anyone.


smonster - Nov 03, 2010 9:01:02 am PDT #7389 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Seska, what a PITA. How can you follow policies you don't know about? I know you already know, but document document document. Keep a journal of all your requests and what you find out when and how. Does the university have an ombudsman or mediation department?

The Fresh Makers are off getting a house tour and it is blissfully quiet. Ahhh... We did lose one yesterday, he left town. He was my biggest PITA, so I feel sad and a little relieved. Nothing I could do, though.


WindSparrow - Nov 03, 2010 9:02:42 am PDT #7390 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Quick-healing~ma for your mother in law, bt. That beautiful boy of yours surely deserves as many adoring fans as he can get.


JZ - Nov 03, 2010 9:12:52 am PDT #7391 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Seska, ugh, what a misery to deal with. And what smonster said; obsessive documentation is your friend.

Quick and easeful healing~ma to bt's mother in law, and the swiftest possible return to her little Emperor and his parents.

Spidra, that piemaker is a thing of utter beauty.


Laga - Nov 03, 2010 9:32:29 am PDT #7392 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

The pink link didn't work for me?

“I think parents need to beat the crap out of their kids … I think the whole spanking and how it’s all gotten P.C. is just for the birds. … [My father] put me through a wall. It’s the only reason I’m still here. It’s the only reason I’m still alive."


meara - Nov 03, 2010 10:45:51 am PDT #7393 of 30000

Hmm. Plei, I looked up the permit, and am still confused/concerned. Apparently they need my consent because it'll be all up in my space--but I'm anxious to hear if they actually think they need to USE my space or if it's just that since the possibility exists (the property runs up to about a foot of the line, so fixing the basement could erode stuff). They also want to add something to the second floor--but that's in front.


Sparky1 - Nov 03, 2010 10:51:27 am PDT #7394 of 30000
Librarian Warlord

meara, don't agree to anything unless it is in writing, including every contingency you can think of, and if they're talking about erosion, they can damn well pay for the civil engineer of your choice to come out and tell you whether or not s/he thinks their plan is a good one.

signed, lawyer, daughter of a civil engineer, sister of a civil engineer, niece of a civil engineer (HI SOX), etc...


Laga - Nov 03, 2010 10:52:38 am PDT #7395 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

I'm worst-case-scenario-girl remembering the time a building in my neighborhood did some (unpermitted) basement construction, partially collapsed, and damaged the building next door. Both of them ended up having to be torn down.


meara - Nov 03, 2010 10:58:25 am PDT #7396 of 30000

Well, yeah. Thanks sparky--since architect lady was being so evasive I'm suspicious. And since I just planted blueberry bushes there, and they'd have to trump through my garden if they want to use the alley...yeah. And the inspection report says neighboring structures don't have basements. Which is false.