But at the same time I am completely overwhelmed by pain and exhaustion and ineffectual doctors with conflicting information. It's really aggravating my depression, and then I feel guilty because I'm depressed and weepy.

sj, I'm sorry you're having such a hard time. I think that pain and exhaustion and crappy contradictory doctors is plenty enough to make anyone feel overwhelmed and weepy.

Several years ago I threw away all the sex toys because the movers were coming and I was so embarassed at the idea that they might see them.

And now your husband is going to be gone for a year! Time to go shopping.

Hey Ouise!

You could go with something a little more discreet, Trudy: [link]

HA! In light of the fact that my theatre just closed "Chess", I find that particularly amusing.

And your down time, especially right now, is completely legitimate. As I believe you've advised some of us in the past.

Yeah, that's me busted.

I felt great after talking with y'all and it's been a good day.

Thanks, Ouise. I think I managed to cover my teary eyes as allergies at the hairdressers. Then I got myself some food. To eat, put lentil soup in the crock pot, and went to pick up CSA with thessally. Now I am going to watch cheesy TV until TCG gets home.

Hey Ouise!

Hey, yourself! I'm trying to take delurk month as inspiration and posting more regularly. It probably won't work.

Now I am going to watch cheesy TV until TCG gets home.

Sounds like an excellent prescription.

major rain here...I think there's hail!

Yay, Ouise!

I thought Kim was Korean!

Yes, he is. But I'm still mildly miffed because of the crossed cultural lines. The character DDK plays is probably Chinese. The character GP plays is probably native Hawaiian. In the original, they were both played by people from Hawaii who were of the right ethnicity. In the reboot, they made them related, which, okay, I'm Japanese and have native Hawaiian cousins.

And then, Grace Park's character (who was originally native Hawaiian, but is probably at least some Chinese if she's supposed to be related to DDK's character) referenced folding a thousand cranes for her cousin. My reaction was that the cousin had better be supposed to be Japanese, because the thousand cranes thing is specifically Japanese, not generic Asian. And definitely not Chinese/Hawaiian as played by a mainlander/Canadian of Korean ethnic heritage. So the family line must be (for values of must that assume the showrunners are thinking anything other than "hey, Asians!") Chinese (Chin Ho) cousin by marriage to native Hawaiian (Kalakaua) who is also cousin by marriage to Japanese (unnamed cousin who folded cranes).

Hee. That got convoluted. Don't get me wrong. I am super super happy at having Asian actors, particularly these high profile Asian actors, on my screen. And the fact that they're DDK & GP ups the likelihood that the show will be in any way about them. So I'm good.

I just think it's a little sad if the show doesn't utilize local Hawaiian actors. Who will speak pidgin properly.

But hey, malasadas! Pretty scenery! DDK being badass! Explosions! Gratuitous girlfights!

I recognize that my objections are probably along the lines of ita's wrong music objections in that no one else cares, but who am I, if not the person who comments on Asian casting?