It's my estimation that... every man ever got a statue made of him, was one kind of sumbitch or another.

Mal ,'Jaynestown'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


DavidS - Sep 30, 2010 5:37:00 pm PDT #4656 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Welcome back, bonny! We missed you. That was a very lovely note, and I am wishing you all the best health.

Your story reminded me of Marianne Faithful's excellent biography. She said that she didn't learn trust growing up, or being a pop star or dating Mick Jagger. But when she was a homeless junkie, living on a wall in London for several years she learned that other people could be benevolent and would be kind to her and take care of her.

Sometimes when you are laid low you can find that kindness in the world.


sj - Sep 30, 2010 5:44:37 pm PDT #4657 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

bonny, it is good to see you posting, and I am so glad to hear that you are starting to feel better.

I have no idea how I am going to get up early tomorrow to babysit, but I suppose it should involved going to be soon. Night, Bitches!


beekaytee - Sep 30, 2010 5:49:02 pm PDT #4658 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

Sometimes when you are laid low you can find that kindness in the world.

Absolutely this.

It isn't that I didn't know the people in my life were good folk, but the incredible depth of their generosity is staggering.

My oldest friend in town...we've drifted into different lives. He has two small kids, etc.

He called, seeming a bit hurt that he had to hear about my struggle from a neighbor. Honestly, it never occurred to me to trouble him.

We talked about how I am uninsured and the hospital bills are going to be rough. Completely unbidden, he said, "Well, I'm going to pay your October rent." Just like that.

People are amazing.


sarameg - Sep 30, 2010 5:51:48 pm PDT #4659 of 30000

bonny, glad you are getting that side of people in spades.


DCJensen - Sep 30, 2010 5:54:23 pm PDT #4660 of 30000
All is well that ends in pizza.

That's wonderful, Bonny!


Nora Deirdre - Sep 30, 2010 5:55:34 pm PDT #4661 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

smonster! I told Joe and Mack about your new job today! I also saw Smitty. Ah, that's a good day.


Nora Deirdre - Sep 30, 2010 5:56:35 pm PDT #4662 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Also, bonny! Seeing you post and knowing you're making steady progress also makes this a great day.


beekaytee - Sep 30, 2010 5:57:14 pm PDT #4663 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

With all that appreciation, I'm off to get the rest I talked about. Sheesh, I'm double dog tired.

Thanks for the great welcome back, folks. Y'all rock.


ChiKat - Sep 30, 2010 6:49:02 pm PDT #4664 of 30000
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

bonny!! so glad to see you're on the upswing. You've been in my thoughts a lot these past few weeks.


Burrell - Sep 30, 2010 7:31:50 pm PDT #4665 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

good to see you bonny, and I'm glad to hear that the universe is taking care of you.