Look, you got a little stabbed the other day. That's bound to make anyone a mite ornery.

Mal ,'Ariel'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Sean K - Sep 27, 2010 9:27:17 am PDT #4218 of 30000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

I just did my first push up set. Ow. I'm glad I don't have to do that again until Wednesday.


WindSparrow - Sep 27, 2010 9:41:38 am PDT #4219 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

His loss. Saner people cherish the opportunity to talk with you.

And so do we.

t /rimshot


beth b - Sep 27, 2010 9:53:31 am PDT #4220 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

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that's a link to a really good explanation of what it is like to have a chronic conditions - It makes me feel lucky, because I have a lot more spoons most days


smonster - Sep 27, 2010 9:56:30 am PDT #4221 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I love the Spoon Theory.


Laga - Sep 27, 2010 10:04:03 am PDT #4222 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

Great article, beth. Thanks for posting.


Zenkitty - Sep 27, 2010 10:04:07 am PDT #4223 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

The Spoon Theory is excellent.


sj - Sep 27, 2010 10:25:21 am PDT #4224 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

The Spoon Theory made me sniffly.


Calli - Sep 27, 2010 10:29:34 am PDT #4225 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I shared the spoon theory with my BFF last weekend, and she really liked it.


Strix - Sep 27, 2010 10:43:30 am PDT #4226 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Oh! That is brilliant; I love it. It's so true; I'm always thinking about what I will do will affect my insomnia.


Steph L. - Sep 27, 2010 11:02:51 am PDT #4227 of 30000
I look more rad than Lutheranism

My biggest problem with incorporating the spoon theory into my life (I want to be clear I DON'T mean "biggest problem" in the sense that I disagree with the spoon theory) is that I don't feel like I have the "right" to use my spoons differently than healthy people. If that makes sense.

Like today -- I have a migraine that's making me barf. But I feel like I have no right to be cut any slack, even though I'm starting from a place where I have no energy, knifey head pain, and general barfiness. I wouldn't ever think that of anyone else in the same situation (like "Why aren't you washing the dishes/cleaning the bathtub/going to work/etc.?"), but I think it of myself. And I get that that's inconsistent and unkind to myself, but I still have a really hard time asserting my needs with other people. And with myself, I guess.