Zoe: Nobody's saying that, sir. Wash: Yeah, we're pretty much just giving each other significant glances and laughing incessantly.

'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Spidra Webster - Sep 16, 2010 2:11:41 pm PDT #2940 of 30000
I wish I could just go somewhere to get flensed but none of the whaling ships near me take Medicare.

Wow, there actually *are* Freecycle groups in Israel! [link]

Ashkelon (Israel, Israel) Haifa Freecycle (Israel, Israel) Herzliya (Israel, Israel) Tel Aviv (Israel, Israel) Yokneam Ilit (Israel, Israel) Zichron Yaakov - Alona (Israel, Israel)


Ginger - Sep 16, 2010 2:12:42 pm PDT #2941 of 30000
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

Apparently, furniture made by shop-class dropouts is more manly [link] I found this article a very strange take on gender roles.


Zenkitty - Sep 16, 2010 2:24:10 pm PDT #2942 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Glad you're home and eating, Drew!


amych - Sep 16, 2010 2:25:09 pm PDT #2943 of 30000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

I found this article a very strange take on gender roles.

Not to mention class. I think I got privilege ick on me.


Atropa - Sep 16, 2010 2:28:45 pm PDT #2944 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Not to mention class. I think I got privilege ick on me.

hands you a lace-edged handkerchief

Yeah, there was a LOT of privilege nonsense going on in there.


Maria - Sep 16, 2010 2:31:56 pm PDT #2945 of 30000
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

Welcome home, Drew!

Vortex, ugh. I'm sorry you have to deal with this.


Steph L. - Sep 16, 2010 3:01:29 pm PDT #2946 of 30000
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Drew is home! Woot!!!

ION, does anyone use a Halti to walk their dog? And does your dog tolerate it? Because Kato, who is otherwise a Good Dog, constantly paws at it and tries to escape-artist his way out and I have no idea what to do to convince him to behave.


Strix - Sep 16, 2010 3:04:12 pm PDT #2947 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Yay, Drew is home! That is SUCH good news.


hippocampus - Sep 16, 2010 3:05:05 pm PDT #2948 of 30000
not your mom's socks.

Hooray Drew!

I am mired. Trying to shake it off, but still heavily mired. Also trying to figure out if the universe is pointing me in a different direction, forcibly. Either way, I'll still finish this, and apply, and give them some coulda-shoulda-woulda's in a couple years' time when I'm right and they are so (old and) wrong.

unrelatedly, Raq, someone was singing Skullcrusher Mountain who is about Mal's height and not me.


Beverly - Sep 16, 2010 3:06:39 pm PDT #2949 of 30000
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Vortex, my fallback was always, "Well, what do you think you should do?" and time enough for her to talk it out, which was what she really wanted anyway, just to be listened to and have someone's attention. Forfend she should actually seriously solicit an opinion or advice except as something to argue her view against. I suppose the exercise gave her a wall to throw ideas against and vocalise them she wouldn't have had otherwise.

If that didn't seem sufficient, when she wound down and waited for me to offer an opinion, I'd ask, "And what would you like to do?" and let her go again.

This method gave her what she was seeking--everything but the enterainment of an argument, which she sometimes pushed for anyway--and kept my frustration down, as I wasn't attempting to solve her problem and getting my suggestions shot down.

It wasn't perfect, but it was better.