lol smonster. I didn't want to say anything because I knew it was a reaction to some medication but I was having a total rejection freakout at about the same time you were. Turns out he does still love me so everything's cool!
No. And yes. It's always sudden.
Tara ,'Storyteller'
Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Laga - Aug 22, 2011 8:56:38 am PDT #28207 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
Vortex - Aug 22, 2011 9:18:29 am PDT #28208 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
I might do the callback to keep my options open (my friend is sending me the script tonight, so I'll be able to get a better sense of the role). OTOH, if I get to the auditions and I'm the only one reading for the role, I would feel bad not accepting it. OTOOH, I have been honest about the fact that I'm looking for a job and that I need to make that a priority.
Laga - Aug 22, 2011 9:23:07 am PDT #28209 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
I think if you're upfront with them about job hunting coming first and they're cool with that, I would go for it, if I were in your shoes, Vortex.
meara - Aug 22, 2011 9:24:03 am PDT #28210 of 30000
If it weren't so far away, I'd say go for it, but a 45 minute commute AND the other issues? No.
smonster - Aug 22, 2011 9:25:09 am PDT #28211 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
I was having a total rejection freakout at about the same time you were.
Oh no!!
Turns out he does still love me so everything's cool!
Oh yay!
I'm still slightly unsettled, and I think I will be until I see him again. Which I hope will be soon.
Nora Deirdre - Aug 22, 2011 10:35:33 am PDT #28212 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
Sigh, Even though we had success today, it seems that does not guarantee that the urethra has healed up, and it may still heal in a way that would be constrictive.
So, catheter back in for another four days. GAH!
omnis_audis - Aug 22, 2011 10:44:16 am PDT #28213 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir
I skip a months worth of posts to see Laga has a boyfriend?!? Awesome cakes!! When you say still loves me, is that Spidey?
ION- my brain has serious debate. Found a condo for real inexpensive, that is real pretty on the inside. Has high HOA because they are in a "need funds to fix everything" mode. It's sandwiched between two 55+ communities. In the middle of Orange County sprawl. Financial brain is saying "grab it! You can afford it, it's clean. It's in move in condition!". My emotional brain is saying "it's in the middle of urban sprawl. No neighborhood. No local anything to walk to. Closest non-Spanish supermarket is 2 miles away, and not en route from work". All that to say, the Libra brain can not make a decision of should I make an offer or not.
Heeeeeellllllllppp.
javachik - Aug 22, 2011 10:50:02 am PDT #28214 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.
I'd say if you're unsure, don't buy it.
amych - Aug 22, 2011 10:50:30 am PDT #28215 of 30000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?
omnis, I'm'a vote "no" from what you're saying -- I don't know any specifics of your budget or wishlist or the market in your area, but it sounds like you're lining up "it's good enough" on the one side vs. a WHOLE lotta reasons you'd be fairly miserable actually living there. When you buy a place, the living there part lasts a whole lot longer than the move-in cuteness.
javachik - Aug 22, 2011 10:50:53 am PDT #28216 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.
When you buy a place, the living there part lasts a whole lot longer than the move-in cuteness.
This.