Uh oh, OkCupid just sent me a quiver match who i've already been on a date with. I think it's time to walk away from internet dating and give up.
I was in StW's quiver. Just sayin'. But I have walked away from OKC many a time, because it's mostly exhausting and depressing.
I don't know anything about OKC, so -- what is a "quiver" and a "quiver match"? All I can think of is the fundie Quiverfull movement, and I'm assuming that OKC doesn't have a sub-section devoted to bringing together women who want to have 25 babies and the men who want to repeatedly knock them up.
Unrelatedly, I have now slept 3 nights in a row without Ambien, and slept pretty darn well (or well-ish). Now, in the spirit of full disclosure: I'm still taking valerian root and melatonin, but I was taking them before and they did nothing. So I'm going to make the assumption that maybe it's taken 3 months off the Wellbutrin for my norepinephrine levels to calm the fuck down (or calm down enough that just valerian root and melatonin can help me sleep). I'll take the win.
(Now that I've said all that, I will probably be bug-eyed with insomnia tonight.)
Tep is me with the confusion. Also, every time I see OKC I think Oklahoma City, but that one is probably just me.
Do you take the valerian and melatonin before bed, Steph?
Do you take the valerian and melatonin before bed, Steph?
About an hour or so before, yeah. Or, I should say, within an hour after I take them, I get really, REALLY sleepy.
Something to think about! Thanks, Steph.
OK Cupid picks three people they think would be good matches for you and sends you an email with their info. So, like, 3 arrows in cupid's quiver, I guess? IDK.
Steph, yay! So glad you are getting sleep.
I'm almost ready to begin the online dating thing. What's the lowdown on the best sites to use when you're looking for people who are ready for LTRs (versus a more casual hook-up)?