See how I'm not punching him? I think I've grown.

Mal ,'Shindig'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


smonster - Aug 14, 2011 5:08:56 pm PDT #27683 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Nothing~ma for lisah!


Steph L. - Aug 14, 2011 5:47:19 pm PDT #27684 of 30000
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I don't know anything about OKC, so -- what is a "quiver" and a "quiver match"? All I can think of is the fundie Quiverfull movement, and I'm assuming that OKC doesn't have a sub-section devoted to bringing together women who want to have 25 babies and the men who want to repeatedly knock them up.


Steph L. - Aug 14, 2011 5:50:16 pm PDT #27685 of 30000
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Unrelatedly, I have now slept 3 nights in a row without Ambien, and slept pretty darn well (or well-ish). Now, in the spirit of full disclosure: I'm still taking valerian root and melatonin, but I was taking them before and they did nothing. So I'm going to make the assumption that maybe it's taken 3 months off the Wellbutrin for my norepinephrine levels to calm the fuck down (or calm down enough that just valerian root and melatonin can help me sleep). I'll take the win.

(Now that I've said all that, I will probably be bug-eyed with insomnia tonight.)


amych - Aug 14, 2011 5:51:47 pm PDT #27686 of 30000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

Tep is me with the confusion. Also, every time I see OKC I think Oklahoma City, but that one is probably just me.


Amy - Aug 14, 2011 5:53:27 pm PDT #27687 of 30000
Because books.

Do you take the valerian and melatonin before bed, Steph?


Steph L. - Aug 14, 2011 5:54:30 pm PDT #27688 of 30000
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Do you take the valerian and melatonin before bed, Steph?

About an hour or so before, yeah. Or, I should say, within an hour after I take them, I get really, REALLY sleepy.


Amy - Aug 14, 2011 5:59:39 pm PDT #27689 of 30000
Because books.

Something to think about! Thanks, Steph.


smonster - Aug 14, 2011 6:04:17 pm PDT #27690 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

OK Cupid picks three people they think would be good matches for you and sends you an email with their info. So, like, 3 arrows in cupid's quiver, I guess? IDK.

Steph, yay! So glad you are getting sleep.


javachik - Aug 14, 2011 6:09:18 pm PDT #27691 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I'm almost ready to begin the online dating thing. What's the lowdown on the best sites to use when you're looking for people who are ready for LTRs (versus a more casual hook-up)?


meara - Aug 14, 2011 6:16:31 pm PDT #27692 of 30000

What's the lowdown on the best sites to use when you're looking for people who are ready for LTRs (versus a more casual hook-up)?

I think the tradition is eHarmony. OKCupid is nice for starters just because it's all free, though that also means there's a very large cross-section of people on it.