LAGA!?!?!?
Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Yeah so I realized all those years ago when I asked him to be poly and he asked me to not... I kinda got my way. So it's his turn now.
Is this D or someone else?
It's D, yes. I've also realized that for a year I have been avoiding dating sites because I don't think I'll find anyone I like as much as him.
so yeah... I am in a monogamous relationship
I endorse this plan! Hope it works out wonderfully.
so yeah... I am in a monogamous relationship
Yay, Laga! Wishing you both all the best.
I feel a little weightless.
I've been thinking about it for probably a month, kept waiting for the opportune moment to arise. Then last night I made a salad that he declared "fucking amazing" and I just had to avow my undying love for him.
OK getting off my butt now, time for oatmeal.
{{{{{{Laga&D}}}}} I wish all the best happiness for the two of you.
I have to admit, when you posted about him there was always such palpable affection and delight there that I sometimes wondered to myself "Why don't Laga and D date?"
Yes, we did. And had such great chemistry. But differing views on what makes an ideal relationship. I didn't want to become a statistic in the poly community, one more person who "dropped out", but now I think of poly as more of a relationship choice than something that needs poster girls.