Yes, it's terribly simple. The good guys are always stalwart and true, the bad guys are easily distinguished by their pointy horns or black hats, and, uh, we always defeat them and save the day. No one ever dies, and everybody lives happily ever after.

Giles ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Pix - Aug 04, 2011 8:02:59 am PDT #26809 of 30000
The status is NOT quo.

LAGA!?!?!?


Laga - Aug 04, 2011 8:04:11 am PDT #26810 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

Yeah so I realized all those years ago when I asked him to be poly and he asked me to not... I kinda got my way. So it's his turn now.


Pix - Aug 04, 2011 8:04:50 am PDT #26811 of 30000
The status is NOT quo.

Is this D or someone else?


Laga - Aug 04, 2011 8:05:47 am PDT #26812 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

It's D, yes. I've also realized that for a year I have been avoiding dating sites because I don't think I'll find anyone I like as much as him.


Laura - Aug 04, 2011 8:14:47 am PDT #26813 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

so yeah... I am in a monogamous relationship

I endorse this plan! Hope it works out wonderfully.


sj - Aug 04, 2011 8:15:54 am PDT #26814 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

so yeah... I am in a monogamous relationship

Yay, Laga! Wishing you both all the best.


Laga - Aug 04, 2011 8:16:48 am PDT #26815 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

I feel a little weightless.

I've been thinking about it for probably a month, kept waiting for the opportune moment to arise. Then last night I made a salad that he declared "fucking amazing" and I just had to avow my undying love for him.

OK getting off my butt now, time for oatmeal.


WindSparrow - Aug 04, 2011 8:45:25 am PDT #26816 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

{{{{{{Laga&D}}}}} I wish all the best happiness for the two of you.


Scrappy - Aug 04, 2011 8:52:41 am PDT #26817 of 30000
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

I have to admit, when you posted about him there was always such palpable affection and delight there that I sometimes wondered to myself "Why don't Laga and D date?"


Laga - Aug 04, 2011 9:01:45 am PDT #26818 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

Yes, we did. And had such great chemistry. But differing views on what makes an ideal relationship. I didn't want to become a statistic in the poly community, one more person who "dropped out", but now I think of poly as more of a relationship choice than something that needs poster girls.